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Beggars / homeless people

  • 21-02-2010 9:17pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 631 ✭✭✭neil_18_


    Do you give them money? Or would you buy them tea/coffee on a freezing cold day? Or maybe a McDonalds?

    There seems to be increasing amounts on the streets lately. I don't give them money, because I can never tell if they are genuine or not, you know the ones with the shiny new nike runners!

    I would not and never have given a Roma gypsy money, not out of racism, but because everyone knows that they live in houses/apartments and begging is like a 9-5 job for them.

    But how can you tell if a beggar is actually homeless?

    EDIT : Just added a poll, its private too...

    Do you give them... 234 votes

    Money
    0% 0 votes
    Tea/Coffee/Drinks
    18% 43 votes
    McDonlads/Burger King etc
    5% 13 votes
    Nothing, because I don't want to
    0% 2 votes
    Nothing, because I have my own financial worries
    75% 176 votes


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Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,378 ✭✭✭Borneo Fnctn


    I never give them money.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 882 ✭✭✭darragh16


    They come askin for change for a bus, change for a hostel, change for a cuppa tea but you're right. Who's genuine or not? I don't give them money.

    I also dont see why they sit beside ATM's, i'm not gonna give you money ive just withdrawn...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 440 ✭✭MrPain


    Never give money to them, it only incourages them more and is most likely spent on drugs/drink/fags. I think its ok to give them food. it's usually easy enough to tell the genuine from non-homeless.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    This thread beggars belief


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,483 ✭✭✭Töpher


    darragh16 wrote: »
    I also dont see why they sit beside ATM's, i'm not gonna give you money ive just withdrawn...

    I'm guessing it's more to do with the idea that you might be more willing to part with the loose change in your pocket if you've just gotten some fresh notes out of the wall.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 562 ✭✭✭lcrcboy


    darragh16 wrote: »
    They come askin for change for a bus, change for a hostel, change for a cuppa tea but you're right. Who's genuine or not? I don't give them money.

    I also dont see why they sit beside ATM's, i'm not gonna give you money ive just withdrawn...

    correction Im not going to give you anything big enough that its a note :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    darragh16 wrote: »
    They come askin for change for a bus, change for a hostel, change for a cuppa tea but you're right. Who's genuine or not? I don't give them money.

    I also dont see why they sit beside ATM's, i'm not gonna give you money ive just withdrawn...

    They sit there because they know people stop at ATMs. It's pretty obvious.

    Although as far as I know new legislation makes it illegal for beggars to sit at ATM or LUAS stops and the like.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 562 ✭✭✭lcrcboy


    Töpher wrote: »
    I'm guessing it's more to do with the idea that you might be more willing to part with the loose change in your pocket if you've just gotten some fresh notes out of the wall.


    just got in before me:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 631 ✭✭✭neil_18_


    On tv3 a while ago there was a show about it, and the ISPCC advised people not to give money to people begging with children, because it will encourage more and more of them to bring kids out


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 882 ✭✭✭darragh16


    I dont like them ones that come up to you outside a pub/club either selling roses or just shoving a cup in your face lookin for money...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,574 ✭✭✭falan


    I have been known to buy a tea for them on a cold day...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭caseyann


    Depends on what kind they are.Usually can tell.I refuse to give to travellers or non nationals.
    Buy them a chipper and tea done few times.Buy them hats gloves scarves and gave them sleeping bags few times.And walked up to hostel and paid for their night.Will not hand them money.

    My mom used to give to bang bang :( RIP


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,971 ✭✭✭Holsten


    Nothing, because I don't want to.

    I really could not give a **** about them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,940 ✭✭✭Corkfeen


    I used to give them money but there's far too many of them now = way too expensive. :D Alot of them tend to be far too demanding to be honest.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 913 ✭✭✭Ronan Keating


    Holsten wrote: »
    Nothing, because I don't want to.

    I really could not give a **** about them.

    Exactly. Useless crowd of feckers covering our streets.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,163 ✭✭✭✭Boston


    Give them nothing. If everyone did likewise there would be no beggars. If you actually care about the homeless, give to a charity which supports them. Don't enable people to live rough.
    AnonoBoy wrote: »
    They sit there because they know people stop at ATMs. It's pretty obvious.

    Although as far as I know new legislation makes it illegal for beggars to sit at ATM or LUAS stops and the like.

    It's illegal to beg anywhere. No new for new laws, just enforce the existing ones.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭caseyann


    Exactly. Useless crowd of feckers covering our streets.


    Some of them people are some how have mental disorders no fixed abode and get nothing from our government also young kids abused by parents:mad:And this country forks out millons to other country charites and to bogus asylum seekers.

    Majority of the beggars you see on streets are not even feckin irish and are travelers or junkies.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,006 ✭✭✭MistyCheese


    So very Politically Uncorrect but I give them eff all. A lot of us are piss poor, not "a lot" of us have the audacity to wag collection tins in people's faces, make the pre-judgement that just because someone isn't out asking for sympathy that they're not suffering.

    Plus, I have prior knowledge of a couple of beggars who make more per week than twice the national minimum wage. Also there is the case of beggars outside of Walmarts making more than the people who worked inside.

    Charity begins at home. I'd sooner pay my Bord Gais bill than give money to beggars.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭caseyann


    Boston wrote: »
    Give them nothing. If everyone did likewise there would be no beggars. If you actually care about the homeless, give to a charity which supports them. Don't enable people to live rough.



    It's illegal to beg anywhere. No new for new laws, just enforce the existing ones.


    No law saying cant buy them food or stuff when not begging :D


    Pity they wouldn't tell them non Irish who stand outside shops with asthma cards they aren't allowed to ask you three or four times would you like to help yada yada:mad: Trying to make you feel bad for not putting money in:mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,378 ✭✭✭Borneo Fnctn


    I swear if I see another beggar with a baby in their arms I'm calling child services. I really do.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    I drop 'em a few copper's or a Euro. Its costs a person far more to beg than it costs me to drop 'em something... 'There but for the grace of God go I' and all that.

    If someone finds their comforts in drink or drugs I'm in no position to sit in judgement over them.

    And tonight, and every other night I spare a thought for our homeless.

    God bless 'em & keep them self from harm.

    *I do not give to the Roma people*.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 59 ✭✭captainscarlet


    Il give money to buskers no problem, but to some guy just sitting there? Not a chance.

    A Roma woman came up to me one day and asked for change of a euro, which she had in her hand, i put two 50c coins in her other, she closed both hands and walked off. The bitch!!!

    I heard somewhere that the best thing to do is just give the money to the Simon Community and they'll see that its dstributed properly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭caseyann


    I swear if I see another beggar with a baby in their arms I'm calling child services. I really do.


    Them ones arent genuine shop them :mad: poor kids :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,561 ✭✭✭Duff


    Kick FTW.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    I can barely afford to feed myself these days never mind anyone else...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,593 ✭✭✭Sea Sharp


    I give them nothing. In this country there are protocols for getting people off the street and I think giving them money just makes getting proper help less apealing.

    I also never give any randomers cigarettes (with the exception of hot lasses in the smoking area:P) because I don't like throwing away money. (Oh the irony :cool:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 228 ✭✭BickNarry


    Smuggest thread on Boards.......

    Can't believe you can't curse or make personal comments yet you can be such an asshole on this forum,makes me wonder.

    Yeah jesus,people living on the streets,why would i give them money.....they clearly don't need it.....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,593 ✭✭✭Sea Sharp


    BickNarry wrote: »
    Smuggest thread on Boards.......

    Yeah jesus,people living on the streets,why would i give them money.....they clearly don't need it.....

    They need help, and donations from random people walking by isn't the best help available to them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 913 ✭✭✭Ronan Keating


    BickNarry wrote: »
    .....they clearly don't need it.....


    They probably do but I wouldn't as much as make eye contact with the crowd. They are part of the pavement to me. Whinging and cribbing for money day after day. Bloody annoying it is.


    Give to the charity instead of that crowd.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,091 ✭✭✭dearg lady


    'There but for the grace of God go I' and all that.

    Just when I was beginning to lose faith in everyone, I saw your post! This bit especially, some people don't realise how bloody lucky they themselves are, and just have no compassion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,986 ✭✭✭✭mikemac


    Never mind what political party in power, the Department of Social Welfare and Family Affairs had a budget estimate of 19.6 billion euro for 2009. Source from their own website

    Of course the homeless and others can fall through the cracks.
    But most towns in Ireland have an office for the Citizens Information service who are very helpful. They have a helpdesk phone number too.
    Hell, call to your local TD and they will help get your entitlements.

    I have compassion. But realy the DSFA is supposed to be efficient so I do hope they will get the applicants their entitlements.
    I don't give to beggars directly . I give to the government and they will do this for me. It's the State's duty to look after citizens. There should be no need for charities


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    There was once I bought a 14 year old chap a sandwich. I'd never give them money though. Buying the sandwich let me know he was being fed and not spending the money elsewhere stupidly.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,089 ✭✭✭ascanbe


    Il give money to buskers no problem, but to some guy just sitting there? Not a chance.

    A Roma woman came up to me one day and asked for change of a euro, which she had in her hand, i put two 50c coins in her other, she closed both hands and walked off. The bitch!!!

    I heard somewhere that the best thing to do is just give the money to the Simon Community and they'll see that its dstributed properly.

    I give money to homeless people because i feel they provide a service; they stake out a spot on the street which otherwise could be inhabited by someone loudly wailing a U2 or David Gray song.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,379 ✭✭✭snow ghost


    I rarely give to beggars or the homeless, other than through charities, simply because I don't believe most of them to be in genuine need of it.

    I did give an elderly Irishman some money in London the once, because he wasn't begging - he was actually trying to sell something he had found in a bin; as desperate as that sounds he just wouldn't beg, he still had something about him even in the poor state he was in, and I admired that. On talking to him he had obviously dropped through the net over the years. He was genuine. I also noticed that giving him my time, by talking to him, was of a lot more value to him than the couple of pounds.

    And buskers I'd give money to, as unlike the reprehensible scavengers feigning need, they have learned that you need to put logs on the fire before you get some heat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 260 ✭✭kerno


    Holsten wrote: »
    Nothing, because I don't want to.

    I really could not give a **** about them.

    Here here..!!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,329 ✭✭✭Xluna


    The odd time I'd give them a fag or fifty cents but I'm way too broke atm. Sure we'll all be dead in 2012 so it's all the one.:p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    Depends on the beggar, it's all subjective

    There was a fella (maybe still is) with red dreadlocks and a dog who always used to sit on shop st in galway in the mornings. He never actually begged, just sat there

    But people always seemed to give him money, I have often seen people give him soup and a sambo. Probably cos he never wrecked anyones head, just threw the odd genuine smile in a non-creepy way, he was a happy beggar!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,329 ✭✭✭Xluna


    dearg lady wrote: »
    Just when I was beginning to lose faith in everyone, I saw your post! This bit especially, some people don't realise how bloody lucky they themselves are, and just have no compassion.

    Yep,we've definitely turned into a nation of judgemental,capatilistic me feiners.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,210 ✭✭✭argosy2006


    best to wear a mask when u do give them money or they will chase you everyday coz they know u gave before and might again,so every time they see you they will run to you asking,after a while u will wish u gave them nothing, so wear a halloween mask lol


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,379 ✭✭✭snow ghost


    Xluna wrote: »
    Yep,we've definitely turned into a nation of judgemental,capatilistic me feiners.

    Judging by many of the beggars - yes we have.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    I give homeless people money and food the odd time.

    One guy in particular I feel really bad for.

    He is always on Moore St and Parnell St and usually has a beard and stands on one spot staring at the ground and laughing. I regularly buy him food.

    A few weeks back I was down in Liffey St and what I seen made me so angry I felt like killing someone. I seen him and his face and head was cut to pieces, his nose was clearly broken and he had a black eye and he was crying and talking to himself.

    Some bastards had obviously given him a hiding for whatever fcuking reason I don't know. Whoever they were I hope they rot in hell as he is as harmless as a child that guy.

    Another person I give money to is Mary of Johnson's lane just off Grafton St (the lane where all the Jewllers are that leads to George's St arcade direction).

    I have been given her money when I can for around twenty years, not much now, but just a little every now and then when I'm about the Grafton St. She's like a landmark at this stage.

    There's a line in the Hothouse Flowers song Give It Up about her:
    It's late in the morning, close to the time
    Mary's in the alley she never stops smiling
    Always love to see her -- means a lot to me
    But I know she has a hard time trying to
    Make ends meet

    Chorus: Give it up...

    Down George Street arcade where the poor children play
    Gathering up charity just to help them make their day
    Me I was once their age, me I was once young
    But I knew I had my family to fall back on


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    :eek:

    I've given Mary money a few times aswel!

    *high 5's pete*

    Small world, eh?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 913 ✭✭✭Ronan Keating


    Bonito wrote: »
    :eek:

    I've given Mary money a few times aswel!

    *high 5's pete*

    Small world, eh?

    She must be loaded then.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,456 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    She must be loaded then.

    And you can't sing for sh!t.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,379 ✭✭✭snow ghost


    Outlawpete,

    Sorry, to hear your story about the homeles guy beaten upon. scumbags.

    What would Mary's situation be if you have been giving her money for 20 years - does she receive benefits? Is she homeless?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Bonito wrote: »
    :eek:

    I've given Mary money a few times aswel!

    *high 5's pete*

    Small world, eh?

    Strange thing happened me last month. I seen her really struggling on Grafton St and she was banging her head on the window of Brown Thomas. Guards didn't know what to do and the about of people that came to her aid was incredible.

    The guy who sells Hot Press, people from Jewllers that are there years, loads of business people telling the Guards that she just needs to be left alone and so they did and she was fine again.

    See young Guards wouldn't know her and even try to move her on and her there before they were even born :rolleyes:

    Then the other night I went to see the Last Station in the IFI and as we walked out she was standing just across the from it and smiled at me and I was never as glad to see her as seeing her at Christmas the way she was I thought she was on her last legs.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    snow ghost wrote: »
    What would Mary's situation be if you have been giving her money for 20 years - does she receive benefits? Is she homeless?

    She has cerebral palsy, like Christy Brown.

    Who knows what she receives but she doesn't have much anyway.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    I never give money to anyone at an ATM though and if I feel sorry for a junkie then I'll buy them food, usually ask them what they would like.

    I have had many homeless people tell me to go fcuk myself when I have asked them if they wanted me to buy them something to eat :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 573 ✭✭✭rgt320q


    - What was it he used to say about the needy? He had a term for them.
    - A shower of bastards.
    - That was it, yes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,167 ✭✭✭gsxr1


    I lived on the first house on Lamb Alley . Just off Thomas street. There is track suit clad scum that deal heroin there every hour, every day. I seen them.. Beat the **** out of a garda one day, and every other day , rob or smash a car.
    I seen it . it happens. Every day. really.
    When you give most of these folk money. They take it straight to this place(or others like it) and give to the scum dealers. There was a girl. skinny,Irish,black around the eyes who begged out side the cash machine on Dame st. She took her profits out side my door. Twice a day. She is no longer there anymore.

    god knows if she is still alive. she looked like a 16 year old.


    think before you give your money away.

    If you are that concerned. Give them some of your lunch.


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