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Mans question re womens sexual desire

  • 21-02-2010 8:20pm
    #1
    neilyoung7
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    I am man who has been going out with his gf for a few years. Over a year ago sex became painful for her. This resulted a serious loss of libido for her and inevitably caused much tension in the relationship.

    Eventually she had the problem resolved by way of a small operation (im not sure what it is called). The problem is that she has reawakend her sexual desire but she seems to have lost her attraction for me. I want to be with her but if the desire is not there on her part it would make very little sense for either of us.I think she wants to give it a go but her desire is gone for me at the moment and she does not know how she will get it back, if at all.

    Has anyone experienced this before and if so is it possible to reawaken her desire for me- i know women's sense of attraction is different to a mans.

    Any opinions, advice, links etc. would be appreciated


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  • #2
    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    Moved from tLL.

    OP you will probably get more / better advice here.


  • #3
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Are you saying she is getting horny but doesn't fancy you any more? I don't think there is anything you can do, really, if she has fallen out of love & lust. What has she suggested?


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