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So lonely

  • 19-02-2010 7:26pm
    #1
    Chocchipcookie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10 ✭


    I'm just posting because i have no one to talk to right now. I dont know why i'm feeling like this. but i feel so alone and loney. i have a boyfriend, and we even live together. but he is very social, has loads of friends and is always out and about with them. I have only a couple of friends. they are married with young babies and have no time to go out. we meet every few months and thats it. I feel like such a loser. i just want someone to call up and say hey lets go to the cinema, a walk, a bite to eat, anything. i started a course to try make friends but they seem to be the same as the others, have ties, other committments. whenever i have suggested going to the cinema, they've said no. i'm sitting here now, friday night, no one to talk to. i'm crying. i've spoken to my boyfriend before about this but i cant keep going on about it. i just want to stop feeling so lonely. sometimes it get so bad i feel like a cant cope anymore.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Awww I sympathise with you, I really do. I know exactly how you feel, my boyfriend has tons of close friends that he's always doing things with. I have a lot of aquaintances that I get on well with, but very few real friends, and the ones I have are so busy! Like you, I often find myself feeling very lonely and like a total loser. I can't offer much advice cause I'm in a similar position myself, but although I tend to be quite shy with new people, I'm really trying hard to overcome it. Do your boyfriend's friends have girlfriends?? Maybe you could all have a big night out together, get to know them, and then when the lads are all out together, you girls could get together too?? xx


  • #3
    force majeure
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 387 ✭✭force majeure


    Hi their
    Cant say I'm off any use to you as you sound pretty well beaten down at the moment.
    Do try though to keep your mind off crap stuff as things like happy go lucky couples on tv could tip you over the edge very fast.
    You boyfriend pardon me saying sounds some what insensitive to you and if he does love you then I would ask you to show him you post when he gets back as sometimes its not easy to say stuff to people without feeling as though we are being ourselves unfair on others.
    If this is not helping feel free to go through other posts here just to pass the time...
    Adrian


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