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Whats wrong with me...

  • 18-02-2010 12:32pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Bit of background.

    I have known the girl in question for years now but I did meet her after my other friend. They have been together for about the same time I have known her. I myself have a girlfriend for nearly a year.

    I would consider both this girl and my friend to my closest friends.

    The problem is that I have fallen for this girl. I know its a cliché if ever there was one but I have. I feel so horrible. Not for me, I deserve to feel like this.... I am bottling it up because if I say it out loud it will hurt 3 of the most important people in my life. I dont know what to do. I just want to forget this feeling.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Gona say what you need to hear...

    Cop yourself on and grow up... Quit spicing up your life by doing the wrong thing!


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    First of all you need to be honest with your girlfriend. If you have been going out with her that long then she obviously is in love with you and it's not fair to string her along when you clearly don't want to be with her. I'm sure you love her but you're not in love with her and it's not fair to let her think that you are. Don't tell her that you've fallen for this other girl obviously, just tell her you love her but only as a friend.

    As for the other girl, that's never going to end well. Your friend has been with her for a long time and the only thing you will achieve by telling her is losing both of them. So I'm sorry to be so harsh, but you'll just have to get over it.


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