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very upset

  • 08-02-2010 4:29pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ive posted before about my situation

    Im the mother of a disabled son. My partner left just over a year ago. Left me literaly homeless.

    This week he dropped the bombshell that he is seeing someone for the past year and that this person has replaced me at his family meals outs. He also said that she now has everything that I cud have had. That she has met all his family etc. He told me this while laughing at me!

    He then announced that when our son was lying in a hospital bed that he was on holidays with her, he didnt want to miss his holidays so he went anyway.

    He asked how did I manage to convince social welfare that our child is sick...... (hes still in denial) meanwhile my house is full of disabilty equipment.

    He then told me im a bad person..... this is coming from the man who was out cheating on me during our relationship while I was at home looking after a very sick child..... its like he is trying to blame me for his atrocious behaviour and somehow justify leaving me.

    I have to see this scumbag nearly every day of the week and he alsocomes up to my house and demands to be let in. There is an access order in place but he thinks he can come over any time he wants and goes beserk if I dont let him in

    and yes I know he is entitled to move on but can you imagine someone (that you love) throwing this at you and behaving in this way and doing none of the hard working that a sick child involves

    Im heartbroken and horrified and distrought for my poor little boy

    Guys how do I get tru the next few weeks?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    How was your relationship before you guys split? Why does he think you are trying to convince anyone that your child is sick?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    We had the usual ups and downs but mostly very good until the minute I had my son, then he changed big time and starting cheating, he was into fb's before me so im shocked he took up a relationship so soon after splitting with me

    I dont have to convince anyone, my child recieves domicilary Care Grant for seriously ill/disabled children.

    He told the new g/f that son has a few problems and that I was a bad person so he could justify leaving me on my own


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