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Not too sure

  • 08-02-2010 11:40am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've been single for a while now and have been hanging out with a girl I kinda have a history with.

    Because it's been a while since being with someone I'm unsure of what to do. I'm pretty certain she likes me and I like her since the last time a couple of years ago, but how do you know if it's going to go anywhere? I don't want to be wasting my time if she doesn't think it'll go anywhere. We never went out officially but basically did the way we were with each other.

    At the same time I don't want to seem too forward or too keen in case I scare her away. Can anyone give some helpful pointers of how to be with a new girl and maybe when or if I should ask her to be my girlfriend? It's very confusing understanding all this. :(


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  • #2
    Curl52
    Closed Accounts Posts: 49 ✭Curl52


    You seem to be over thinking this slightly, you don't want to come across as intense so early. We never know what is going to happen so you need to just try and relax and take it one day at a time. Start with asking her on a date and go from there. It different for everyone when you decide that you are officially boyfriend and girlfriend but hold off on it for at least the first couple of dates, nothing worse then being overeager.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Curl52 wrote:
    You seem to be over thinking this slightly, you don't want to come across as intense so early. We never know what is going to happen so you need to just try and relax and take it one day at a time. Start with asking her on a date and go from there. It different for everyone when you decide that you are officially boyfriend and girlfriend but hold off on it for at least the first couple of dates, nothing worse then being overeager.

    I don't mean to sound intense. I suppose asking her out somewhere would be a good idea. Take things slow and see what happens. Thanks :)


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