Girlfriend banging other men

Riverpineapple

What is it that bothers you about your girlfriend banging other men? Im not talking about cheating here.

For me it used to be that he might be better in bed than me and she'd enjoy it more than with me.

Now that I think about it that was a stupid reason. I'm obviously not the best in the world at sex, there are many men better than me, and I'm sure she's aware of that too, so who cares if she has sex with other men.

I honestly don't think I would be too bothered about her banging other men ( of course I who knows how I'd feel in the moment, but a I think I'd be fine with it). I don't see the big deal. Has anyone else had my epiphany or a similar one?

Crann na Beatha

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AnonoBoy

You can dress it up any way you like but what you're saying basically is that your missus gets about a bit.

Oneironaut

You have to have a girlfriend in the first place for it to bother you.

AckwelFoley

id bang yer girlfriend better than you

..ad she'd like it lol




i only joke mate....

its natural for men to think about it... and probably women too...

Just ignore the thoughts.. they're stupid.

Shes with you because yu are either a great roide or rich

Senna

Virgin FTW:D

funk-you

Snub wrote: »

Virgin FTW:D

Gullible much?

-Funk

mikom

Riverpineapple wrote: »

What is it that bothers you about your girlfriend banging other men? Im not talking about cheating here.

For me it used to be that he might be better in bed than me and she'd enjoy it more than with me.

Now that I think about it that was a stupid reason. I'm obviously not the best in the world at sex, there are many men better than me, and I'm sure she's aware of that too, so who cares if she has sex with other men.

I honestly don't think I would be too bothered about her banging other men ( of course I who knows how I'd feel in the moment, but a I think I'd be fine with it). I don't see the big deal. Has anyone else had my epiphany or a similar one?

Translation.....


What is it that bothers you about your hand banging other men? Im not talking about cheating here.

For me it used to be that he might be better in bed than me and my hand would enjoy it more than with me.

Now that I think about it that was a stupid reason. I'm obviously not the best in the world at sex, there are many men better than me, and I'm sure my hand is aware of that too, so who cares if my hand has sex with other men.

I honestly don't think I would be too bothered about my hand banging other men ( of course I who knows how I'd feel in the moment, but a I think I'd be fine with it). I don't see the big deal. Has anyone else had my epiphany or a similar one?

Lia_lia

Haha, banging.

MaybeLogic

Riverpineapple wrote: »

What is it that bothers you about your girlfriend banging other men? Im not talking about cheating here.

For me it used to be that he might be better in bed than me and she'd enjoy it more than with me.

Now that I think about it that was a stupid reason. I'm obviously not the best in the world at sex, there are many men better than me, and I'm sure she's aware of that too, so who cares if she has sex with other men.

I honestly don't think I would be too bothered about her banging other men ( of course I who knows how I'd feel in the moment, but a I think I'd be fine with it). I don't see the big deal. Has anyone else had my epiphany or a similar one?

There's an argument that you could possibly be more advanced than others with regard to this subject.
We live in an age of plentiful and effective contraception and moral codes previously based on the axiom of sex equals pregnancy are ,or one could argue should be, obsolete.
If you personally are not all that possessive and it doesn't bother you, why worry about it?
I hope your getting some too. With your girlfriends permission,of course.;)

That_Guy

If a girl has had previous sexual experiences with other men and then compares you to them.... then I'm sorry, but she's a bitch.

jd007

Riverpineapple wrote: »

Now that I think about it that was a stupid reason. I'm obviously not the best in the world at sex, there are many men better than me, and I'm sure she's aware of that too, so who cares if she has sex with other men.

Why would that be obvious? Sure I've never had sex with ya.



I don't think I have anyways.

GLaDOS

That_Guy wrote: »

If a girl has had previous sexual experiences with other men and then compares you to them.... then I'm sorry, but she's a bitch.

I don't really mind if it's positive

That_Guy

ScienceNerd wrote: »

I don't really mind if it's positive

I dunno if I'd like her comparing whether I was better or worse. To me it would feel like she was comparing myself and others all the way through the act of gettin' it on.

Latchy

Doggings quite popular in some parts .It's voyeuristic and kinky for some to to see your other half having sex with another ,male and female .Separate issue of course

GLaDOS

That_Guy wrote: »

I dunno if I'd like her comparing whether I was better or worse. To me it would feel like she was comparing myself and others all the way through the act of gettin' it on.

What if she starts screaming "OH YEAH THAT_GUY, YOU'RE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT_OTHER_GUY"

6th

That_Guy wrote: »

If a girl has had previous sexual experiences with other men and then compares you to them.... then I'm sorry, but she's a bitch.

I like to see you go down stairs and say that to your moms face!

MIN2511

Lets talk about sex baby

AnonoBoy

MIN2511 wrote: »

Lets talk about sex baby

I thought we already were?

jenga-jen

I wouldn't mind if she did...but then the boyfriend might be surprised that I'd a girlfriend

Your basically asking why do some people like open relationships and others don't and tbh.....who the fook know!? Or cares?

That's like asking why someone doesn't like doggy style, it's not gonna affect whether YOU wanna go home and do it for a few hours on end

If it works for you, sure go do it. Just make sure your gf isn't the only one having all the fun - besides the lad she's 'banging' (lol) obviously

stovelid

Lia_lia wrote: »

Haha, banging.

Always preferred hosing down your barn door myself.

Solvo Slep

MIN2511 wrote: »

Lets talk about sex baby

Sex with what??? :eek: What kind of forum is this?

genericguy

Latchy wrote: »

Doggings quite popular in some parts .It's voyeuristic and kinky for some to to see your other half having sex with another ,male and female .Separate issue of course

so what you're basically saying is that you'd like to see one of us come and enjoy ms. abigayle in front of you?

Rented Mule

Dude ....you know that thing that she does that you like ?

I taught her that.

You're welcome.

Red_Marauder

Yeah to be serious for a minute (sorry) I do think that in one hundred years people will look back at our rules on monogamy (even to the extent of legislation on marriage) and consider the concept totally bizarre.

Why can I kiss a woman on the cheek but not shag her? I really don't get it. Monogamy is totally derlict as an idea.

I'd go crazy if someone I was seeing slept around. That would be it between us, but I don't like that I feel that way. It must be my inner caveman, I knew he had to be in there somewhere.

Agricola

My girlfriend and I have an open relationship. Shes open to me seeing other women....!









I dont have a gf really

OutlawPete

genericguy wrote: »

so what you're basically saying is that you'd like to see one of us come and enjoy ms. abigayle in front of you?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8MzYsj3SSs

Red_Marauder

Agricola wrote: »

I dont have a gf really

Oh well. At least the bit about being able to see other women is true!

The_Kew_Tour

Tell her she not that great in bed herself

willkeep her on her toes

girls love that

Sofaspud

stovelid wrote: »

Always preferred hosing down your barn door myself.

I've always found "bothering your livestock" does the job!

congo_90

I'll do her for ya. She a big gal?
I'll do you half price too op Unless your big too.. :pac::pac:

mloc

I wouldn't call any girl who's sleeping with other guys my girlfriend.

Latchy

genericguy wrote: »

so what you're basically saying is that you'd like to see one of us come and enjoy in front of you?

NO !!

Gummy Panda

Just think OP. The place where you've been licking, another guy has oozed out off, in the past. :eek:

Have happy thoughts! :pac:

bonerm

Riverpineapple wrote: »

What is it that bothers you about your girlfriend banging other men?

I'd be against it personally because I'm very protective of my sister.

Riverpineapple

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Just think OP. The place where you've been licking, another guy has oozed out off, in the past. :eek:

Have happy thoughts! :pac:

Well imagine the place you licked that had a bloody period on it. who cares if she had a shower in the meantime.

Imagine how much fun you could have if you get over your jealousy. Girlfriend during the weekend and new girls at the weekend. A perfect world.

spacetweek

I really, honestly, wouldn't be massively upset by this, so long as...

1) We agreed it beforehand
2) She didn't describe it to me in detail
3) I got to do it too

Maybe I'm just MASSIVELY liberal, though, but seriously. I wouldn't be the possessive type at all.

I know she loves me, and sex isn't really a big deal. It's like having a cup of tea.

Big Nasty

If your girlfriend is banging other blokes she's not your girlfriend. She might be your shag buddy, or you might be one of her shag buddys, but she is definitely not your girlfriend.


/thread.

MIN2511

Lol... Lads, calm down...

Loving is sharing and sharing is loving










rotflmao

kowloon

Just make sure to get a paternity test before she makes you pay for a sprog (and 10 other men simultaneously).

Hande hoche!

Great thread title OP.

Celly Smunt

maybe we can all meet up one night in your house?,it'd be like and xbox tournament just with your girlfriend getting banged and you crying in a corner.

m@cc@

The fact that she's 'banged' them. Got to be a worry.

Gummy Panda

Riverpineapple wrote: »

Well imagine the place you licked that had a bloody period on it. who cares if she had a shower in the meantime.

I could be into reverse vampire

starbelgrade

spacetweek wrote: »

sex isn't really a big deal. It's like having a cup of tea.

Only biscuits taste better when they're dunked in tea.

questioner

Red_Marauder wrote: »

...

Why can I kiss a woman on the cheek but not shag her? I really don't get it. Monogamy is totally derlict as an idea.....

derlict my balls heh heh

congo_90

Thread lacks poll on who would bang op's gf... If you knew he was a boardsie would you still be able to?

m5ex9oqjawdg2i

Riverpineapple wrote: »

What is it that bothers you about your girlfriend banging other men? Im not talking about cheating here.

For me it used to be that he might be better in bed than me and she'd enjoy it more than with me.

Now that I think about it that was a stupid reason. I'm obviously not the best in the world at sex, there are many men better than me, and I'm sure she's aware of that too, so who cares if she has sex with other men.

I honestly don't think I would be too bothered about her banging other men ( of course I who knows how I'd feel in the moment, but a I think I'd be fine with it). I don't see the big deal. Has anyone else had my epiphany or a similar one?

Nope... would you change your mind if she got the clap?

That_Guy

Just looking at the thread title again and I can't help but think of that fcuking Ricky Martin song.

spacetweek

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Just think OP. The place where you've been licking, another guy has oozed out off, in the past. :eek:

Have happy thoughts! :pac:

Well, that's the case for every girl anyway! Before I was with my girlfriend, she was riding some other guy. But I never think about that.

In fact, I never had until I read this thread

That_Guy

Damn you Gummy Panda.