Would You Cheat On Your Partner?

_Faithless_

..if they would never find out.

Let's see how promiscuous Ireland is.

RobbieTheRobber

Yes but then I would also do it if she would find out, mainly because im really crap at breaking up and its easier when they hate me

dr.bollocko

Goddamn I hope you get some quick responses if that article has to be written by 6 tonight.

General Zod

I was thinking that the Metro was suspiciously empty last Friday (except for the front page article, of course).

Pompey Magnus

No, I have plenty of failings when it comes to relationships but this is one thing that I can confidently say I wouldn't do.

Atavan-Halen

No, I wouldn't.

AnonoBoy

In Scrabble?

Yes.

Prof.Badass

3D porn will eliminate infidelity :pac:.

_Faithless_

Oh sorry, wrong website. I forgot Ireland was all "no sex before marriage".

That_Guy

I started this thread in R&R. Can you guess what I answered in the poll question?

RobbieTheRobber

That_Guy wrote: »

I started this thread in R&R. Can you guess what I answered in the poll question?

did you answer "Girl: I would cheat on my partner" ?

GLaDOS

_Faithless_ wrote: »

Oh sorry, wrong website. I forgot Ireland was all "no sex before marriage".

Are you implying not cheating = prudish?

Anyway, no, of course not.

That_Guy

RobbieTheRobber wrote: »

did you answer "Girl: I would cheat on my partner" ?

That Guy Robbie.

_Faithless_

That_Guy wrote: »

I started this thread in R&R. Can you guess what I answered in the poll question?

I value your principles but the fact is that nobody cares about your emotional state so why care about others? It's 2010 and having several partners is the norm. My thought is that what they don't know, won't hurt them. It's not that I'm a bad or evil person, I'm just searching for the right one who I feel enough for not to continue my ways.

How poetic of me.

Minstrel27

_Faithless_ wrote: »

..if they would never find out.

Hell yeah.

That_Guy

_Faithless_ wrote: »

I value your principles but the fact is that nobody cares about your emotional state so why care about others? It's 2010 and having several partners is the norm. My thought is that what they don't know, won't hurt them. It's not that I'm a bad or evil person, I'm just searching for the right one who I feel enough for not to continue my ways.

How poetic of me.

News to me.

GLaDOS

_Faithless_ wrote: »

I'm just searching for the right one who I feel enough for not to continue my ways.

Why bother having a committed partner at all then?

stovelid

_Faithless_ wrote: »

Oh sorry, wrong website. I forgot Ireland was all "no sex before marriage".

Just make up the results.

If you're new to the job or on work experience, the usual slant is to lean toward a heavily moralistic tone about the deluge of cheating, but to also try and give us the horn by making the prurient 'revelations' very detailed.

If you work for the SINDO, it also helps to include the picture of an orange-looking mot who supposedly knocked up the article (based on the experiences of her usefully wanton friends) while wearing a nightie or titty dress.

That_Guy

ScienceNerd wrote: »

Why bother having a committed partner at all then?

Plus if she/he did find a partner the old saying goes "A leopard never changes his spots"

Allure_

God no

super_furry

Trying to keep one woman happy is exhausting enough. No idea how anyone could keep up with two.

_Faithless_

ScienceNerd wrote: »

Why bother having a committed partner at all then?

Let me start by asking you a question.

If you cared enough about your partner and discovered they had something to hide, would you be upset or take it on the chin? I've seen people being cheated on similar to That_Guy's experiences. It made me sick too but I needed a backup plan. If you can't beat them, join them. I do what I do to cover my own ass.

In a way, it destroys a little connection between two people. Having cheated, you see that there are others out there in case of a separation. Nothing changes. I felt guilty the first time, but unlike other things in life you may regret, it doesn't make you lose a part of yourself.

There is an old saying I swear by, "Don't hate the player, hate the game".

On Saturday night, I met a woman who cheated on her boyfriend with me. I wouldn't want to be him and I never will because of my attitude. I have found that girls with boyfriends are most likely to go to bed with a new person whom they just met. For example, I try to take the blame of her sub-consciously by stating that I have a girlfriend too so she doesn't feel 100% responsibly for what is about to happen.

If she says that he's good to her and that he's a "nice guy", I work on that by stating it over and over again. No woman wants to be with a "nice guy".

I feel the other guys anger at this but I can't apologize for my actions. It's just the way I am.

Sleepy

/me anally rapes __Faithless

I can't apologize, it's just the way I am.

GLaDOS

_Faithless_ wrote: »

Let me start by asking you a question.

If you cared enough about your partner and discovered they had something to hide, would you be upset or take it on the chin?

I have been cheated on, and damn straight I was upset. I'd never want to put a girl through what I had felt because of my selfishness.

I'm with a girl 6 months now and there is honestly nobody else I'd rather be with, if that were to change, I would tell her instead of just going off with some other girl. Just because lots of people do it, doesn't make it right.

Kiera

Nope never.

AssaultedPeanut

Girl: Would NOT cheat on a partner

If you want to be with other people/play the field, break up with your significant other/don't get into a relationship.

It's that simple!

omb0wyn5ehpij9

Definately not

itsallaboutheL

I have done so in the past, i'm not proud of it but i have...

I've also been with girls who had boyfriends... i feel no remorse for that though.:o

Dj Stiggie

Definitely not.

I was once accused of it by one of my then-girlfriend's best friends who said I was with her when I wasn't. She was later caught out but after me getting the cold shoulder off many of my female friends for months for what I'd 'done' there was no 'Sorry about that Stiggie'.

My ex and I are kinda friends now and she told me she cheated on her new boyfriend. I had to laugh.

Still doesn't change my perspective on it. Why bother cheating if its gonna bother your conscience, even if its just at the the start. You might as well break up with you're partner and enjoy playing the field as a free man/woman then there's no need to worry about being caught out or anything.

EDIT/ How is your poll accurate if considerably more men are voting?

AnonoBoy

If my partner was a lazy useless talentless 'journalist' who had to resort to going to online message boards for their article ideas then I would cheat on them yes.

Biggins

No. Short and simple.

SoulTrader

vinylmesh wrote: »

3D porn will virtually eliminate infidelity :pac:.

FYP :pac:

Keogg

_Faithless_ wrote: »

..if they would never find out.

Let's see how promiscuous Ireland is.

A very apt username;)


PersonallyI wouldn't though, I mean if you want to go shag somebody else for whatever your reasons, go ahead, but, morally, you're all going to hell!!:pac:

TheZohanS

_Faithless_ wrote: »

I feel the other guys anger at this but I can't apologize for my actions. It's just the way I am.

Look who it is everybody; it's "I post about nobody wanting to go out with me guy".

Clano

TheZohan wrote: »

Look who it is everybody; it's "I post about nobody wanting to go out with me guy".

hahahahahaha brilliant!!!!!

The_Kew_Tour

The wheel always turns, so no I would not cheat on a partner

F.R.

It all comes down to your moral compass. If you are an honest person you won't cheat.

Lia_lia

No, never. So many of my friends do though. I never could.

Anna Molly

Never.
& if the guy was in a relationship and I wanted him I wouldn't interrupt that.
Cheating makes me sick,
especially the whole, it was a mistake and I love you ****e.
Bite me, if you loved him/her you wouldn't have done it, the thought wouldn't have crossed your mind.
Go fudge yourself.

jenga-jen

Girl: Wouldn't

What's the point tbh!? Cheap thrill?

Man up and break up if you don't wanna be with them or they're treating you like shít.

Causing another person pain and humiliation because being hated is easier doesn't make you a hero cos you're getting yer bit, just makes you a bit of a jerk............ IMO

seanybiker

Not a bloody hope. Whats the point in being with someone if you're gonna cheat on them.

Midnight_EG

Not a hope, but you really should have made the poll public.

Toots

Would never cheat on my partner. Even if they never found out, I couldn't live with it.

Rented Mule

I want to know who the two durty sluts are who would cheat on their man*.









*.....and ask them if I could buy them both a drink !!

token56

Never, I dont care the situation I dont think its acceptable, people may have different opinions, but as far as I'm concerned cheating is cheating and I know I never could or would.

Local-womanizer

nope,you would have to be a right asshole to do that to some-one.

Look at molly and Tyrone in Cornation street!!!! Poor young fella!

Jemmy

I have on an ex in the past, but never would again.

ChocolateSauce

I wouldn't cheat on her. Besides, it would be pretty hard considering sex with other people is okay with us. Cheating for me would need to involve some kind of romantic involvement with someone else, and I've no interest in that.

_Faithless_

Jemmy wrote: »

I have on an ex in the past, but never would again.

I like to make a bit of a game out of it, tbh.

You know, see how many women I can get before I see my partner again.

My record thus far is a measly 2.

Happy days.

bonerm

Yes, yes I would. And the irony of it all is that it's easier to get a woman when you already have one. It's as tho you automatically deem blokes who are in relationships as more desirable than blokes who are single. You crazy crazy ladies.

smiley girl

_Faithless_ wrote: »

It's 2010 and having several partners is the norm. My thought is that what they don't know, won't hurt them. It's not that I'm a bad or evil person, I'm just searching for the right one who I feel enough for not to continue my ways.

So while you're cheating on these partners and they don't know, whose to say they are faithful to you? Would that bother you, if your partner was scr3wing around behind your back?

Anyway, would it not be easier to just not be in a relationship and just play the field? Or is it the sneaking around and lying that you enjoy??