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  • 24-01-2010 11:58pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok so i get on really well with this girl(im a guy), i think we both get on well but i want to become real friends with her like seeing her outside of school but i don't know how to get to that stage? how could i subtyl suggest we become proper friends?


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  • #2
    Princess Consuela Bananahammock
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,754 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    sans amis wrote: »
    ok so i get on really well with this girl(im a guy), i think we both get on well but i want to become real friends with her like seeing her outside of school but i don't know how to get to that stage? how could i subtyl suggest we become proper friends?

    Just conversation, really. Go with common interests, stuff you feel comfrotable talking about. Ask her if she's going to upcoming socials, events or parties (if applicable!)

    At some point, she'll either reciprocate or not. Not much you can do until she does or doesn't

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • #3
    Agent J
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,909 ✭✭✭Agent J


    Are we talking friend or Girlfriend here? Be honest.

    2 different situations and requiring different approaches.

    If its a friend you seek then just invite them to whatever you normally would invite other friends to. Be it over for movies, hanging out, cineama or whatever you young people do for fun ;). Get some contact details for them , be it phone number, email, etc.

    If its a girlfriend then you can do the same as above but be warned mixed signals all over the place.
    You should just ask them out to something and try to subtley make it clear its just the 2 of you. Better to be clear and direct about it.

    If you get shot down on the Gf and still want to be friends then revert to previous plan but try not to think of it as laying ground work for a future relationship.


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