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Problems Meeting Someone

  • 16-01-2010 5:25pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I was going out with a girl for about a year and a half, she was my first girlfriend, and i eventually broke up with her. That was two years ago and i havent had one since. I'm 22 and considered quite good looking, i have no problem meeting women and have a few friends that fancy me. The problem i'm having is that i just haven't connected with any of these girls, they're all pretty cool but i just don't feel like i really want to go out with them. My friends think i'm just WAY too picky. I dont want to go out with a girl if i think theres a possibility someone better will come along.
    Am i picky or is it just a matter of time?
    Thanks for any help


Comments

  • #2
    sugardan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 100 ✭✭sugardan


    Maybe you haven't met anyone who is your type. You should try dating
    some of the girls you might be interested see if anything develops.
    don't worry your very young had a friend in college who was hopelessly picky
    ended up with a friends sister that started as a friendship so make yourself
    available.


  • #3
    Pricey
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭Pricey


    Hey ,

    You are a lucky guy, all those women to choose from mmmm mmmm
    Why is it that we only regret things when we are in the future looking back.

    You are fortunate that you are not that far into the future to make any major regrets

    So, what do you do?
    You have recognised in yourself that you can bring these friendships only so far, but you hit a sticking point somewhere along the line.
    Now, how do you deal with the sticking points?
    What are the facts? You are 22, and for some reason in Irish society, men are afraid to let women slip through their fingers in case they will experience a long dry spell. So their braIN tells them that they must enter into a long relationship. This is what is affecting you, you seem to believe that every relationship has to be long, so you want to spend your youth with the right one, the best one.
    I am not from that school of thought, use your youth to enjoy as many women as you can, let them pick you, and if your happy with her, enter a relationship.
    as for your sticking points, build some attraction among these girls, (you dont buy a car without test driving it first)

    If you want any pointers and methods on building attraction with women, send me a private message.

    And remember, challenge yourself, your friends are not always right.

    good luck

    Pricey ;-)


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