I Kissed a Man & I Liked It

starbelgrade

Ok, we had that Katie Perry song about girls snogging & no-one really batted an eyelid.. for blokes it was mildly titillating, for girls, at worst innofensive, at best, an expression of a sexual fantasy - not necessarily a desire - but a fantasy.

Either way, it was a big hit.

It also made me think, what if it was gender reversed & sung by, say Karl Perry, singing, "I kissed a boy & I liked it"... how different would the reaction have been?

In my opinion, young girls would not have bought it, most blokes would have been mildly disgusted by it and it would have flopped (no pun intended)..

So why? Is homophobia just gender related?

brendansmith

Women are sexy, men are horrible and have hairy ar$eholes.

Senna

There's only one rule;
Girl on Girl = Good
Man on Man = Bad

GLaDOS

starbelgrade wrote: »

Ok, we had that Katie Perry song about girls snogging & no-one really batted an eyelid.. for blokes it was mildly titillating, for girls, at worst innofensive, at best, an expression of a sexual fantasy - not necessarily a desire - but a fantasy.

Either way, it was a big hit.

It also made me think, what if it was gender reversed & sung by, say Karl Perry, singing, "I kissed a boy & I liked it"... how different would the reaction have been?

In my opinion, young girls would not have bought it, most blokes would have been mildly disgusted by it and it would have flopped (no pun intended)..

So why? Is homophobia just gender related?

Already been done, with a much better song and more extreme

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTN6Du3MCgI

That_Guy

Don't get me started......

*runs away*

Cunny-Funt

Its not homophobia, girls are nice to look at , men a horrible hairy lumpy things. No one wants to see two blokes, not even women who are supposed to be sexually attracted to men. (generally speaking)

Its always been a cheeky kinky thing for two chicks to kiss for a reason. The same reason women don't get off to male gay porn.

Also, generally the sight of another women is not displeasing to women, so women that do watch porn generally wont mind seeing the naked chick.

Honestly this is all common sense, but its always gonna come up, and go in circles.
:rolleyes:

Prof.Badass

I don't know. I don't enjoy watching lesbian activity at all. I remember watching this dance video of all these hot girls going at it and then thinking, "if they're so happy going with each other, why the hell would they go with me?" .

Buford T Justice

Well, to make it manly it'd need to at least be beer flavored chap stick.

Who_owns_this?

Remember that show that used to be on Channel 4, "Queer as Folk"? As a straight woman, I still found that pretty sexy at times!
And how about Brokeback Mountain. I swear, that scene with the two of them in the tent. Mmmmmmm!!!
Wouldn't get much out of two hairy, sweaty blokes snogging each other though - it has to be done with tact and beautiful men.

antodeco

In fairness, Russell Brand is just Katy Perry with a beard

witnessmenow

starbelgrade wrote: »

Ok, we had that Katie Perry song about girls snogging & no-one really batted an eyelid.. for blokes it was mildly titillating, for girls, at worst innofensive, at best, an expression of a sexual fantasy - not necessarily a desire - but a fantasy.

Either way, it was a big hit.

It also made me think, what if it was gender reversed & sung by, say Karl Perry, singing, "I kissed a boy & I liked it"... how different would the reaction have been?

In my opinion, young girls would not have bought it, most blokes would have been mildly disgusted by it and it would have flopped (no pun intended)..

So why? Is homophobia just gender related?

Wasnt this brought up on one of the big fat quiz of the years? (2008 i think) - Either than or im suffering a major case of deja vu

Funkfield

antodeco wrote: »

In fairness, Russell Brand is just Katy Perry with a beard

Ha ha ha ha ha! Nice!

oldyouth

Women are all right, but you can't beat the real thing

ScumLord

Men see other men as competition that must be destroyed. We'd rather hit each other than kiss each other.

Birneybau

antodeco wrote: »

In fairness, Russell Brand is just Katy Perry with a beard

Russell Brand is Nigella Lawson with a beard!

dr.bollocko

I'd do nigella lawson with a beard.

AnonoBoy

ScienceNerd wrote: »

Already been done, with a much better song and more extreme

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTN6Du3MCgI

Why are the words 'nuclear' and 'war' edited out of the song? Weird.

AnonoBoy

dr.bollocko wrote: »

I'd do nigella lawson with a beard.

I'd do her with my genitals but y'know whatever you're into weirdo.

Birneybau

dr.bollocko wrote: »

I'd do nigella lawson with a beard.

Or use her as a beard?

antodeco

dr.bollocko wrote: »

I'd do nigella lawson with a beard.

Here you go

Coriolanus

vinylmesh wrote: »

I don't know. I don't enjoy watching lesbian activity at all. I remember watching this dance video of all these hot girls going at it and then thinking, "if they're so happy going with each other, why the hell would they go with me?" .

Obviously ghey. :pac:;)

All seriousness aside, I'd rather watch hetero pron than lesbian, for the above reason. It really only works as a fantasy if you think you can the two of them into bed.

bonerm

(Good looking) Women just kiss each other for male attention. Men kiss each other because there is a hierarchy in prison which must be obeyed.

Birneybau

antodeco wrote: »

Here you go

Its Russell Brand !!

Either that or Nigella is on HRT..

OwenM

For every lesbian couple = Work for a film crew.
For every gay couple = less men competing for women...

dr.bollocko

antodeco wrote: »

Here you go

Still would tbh.

Blisterman

AnonoBoy wrote: »

Why are the words 'nuclear' and 'war' edited out of the song? Weird.

You're obviously not familiar with gay slang. A nuclear war is where 15 guys with gerbils up their bums spunk and poo on you at the same time, while heiling hitler.

I believe it's quite fun.

AnonoBoy

Blisterman wrote: »

You're obviously not familiar with gay slang. A nuclear war is where 15 guys with gerbils up their bums spunk and poo on you at the same time, while heiling hitler.

I believe it's quite fun.

PM sent.

hooradiation

Senna wrote: »

There's only one rule;
Girl on Girl = Good
Man on Man = Bad

Says you.....

Blisterman

AnonoBoy wrote: »

PM sent.

Great. Only need 14 more now.

starbelgrade

Who_owns_this? wrote: »

Remember that show that used to be on Channel 4, "Queer as Folk"? As a straight woman, I still found that pretty sexy at times!
And how about Brokeback Mountain. I swear, that scene with the two of them in the tent. Mmmmmmm!!!
Wouldn't get much out of two hairy, sweaty blokes snogging each other though - it has to be done with tact and beautiful men.

"Queer as Folk" was a really good show - at the time at least - dunno how well it's aged, but my missus stiil has a thing for the Irish actor who played one of the lead roles.

I have to say though - Brokeback Mountain was the worst western I've ever seen - not because there was no gun slinging, but I couldn't understand a f*cking word anyone was saying. Clint was a great western mumbler, but at least you could hear what he was mumbling!