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Break up

  • 06-01-2010 10:37pm
    #1
    Falcon.ie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 214 ✭✭


    Recently, well when I say recently about a month or so ago my girlfriend broke up with me, my friends have in fairness tried there best to get me going again but it hasn't really worked, I think of her at the most random of times, an example would be in Superquinn last weekend I saw something stupid... and just random stuff like that. It's been quite tough on me. Then just this week I saw her at my local Dart stop, well our local Dart stop since she lives close by, and it was the first time I have seen her since we parted ways... but anyway fairly sure she didn't see me and that was that... it just really hit me for six. I'm at an odds as to how to move on... I've tried the usual stuff, keeping myself busy and all that but it just doesn't seem to be working..

    I need help. :(


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    hey falcon.. sorry to hear what you are going through.. im sorry to say it but most of us have been there at some point. im 5 months parted from my ex boyf and i think about him every day... its rediculous..
    I think its always tougher for a guy as you dont have the support of a load of girl rallying around you saying ahh men are this and men are that etc etc etc..

    I dont know how to tell you to move on to be honest but the best way to try and do it and to be very harsh is to try and bury the relationship and her with it.. you need to try and find things that will occupy you.. i know everyone will prob say the same and its easy to say that.. but i SERIOUSLY know how you feel. i have sat around like a wet rag for months feeling sorry for myself and only before xmas did i say to myself " what the hell are you doing??" I couldnt kiss anyone for months, i checked and still look at his profile on facebook... pathetic i know.. but we all do it!

    my advise to you is to please just try and keep your head up, be good to yourself and someone wise (one of my exs mates) said to me : feel the love from your family and friends and most of all be good to yourself... there will be someone better out there for you

    hopefully it works out for you - these things are not easy but believe me time is a great healer.. dont rush into replacing your ex with someone else.. find time to get your head together again

    :)


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