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Thinking Unhealthy Thoughts

  • 06-01-2010 12:22pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Going out with girl nearly 6 months. Last night I couldn't sleep. I do love her and am mad about her and her me I'm glad to say. Sounds perfect but it's not and I don't know why. I think I have paranoia or something about her. Like, I'd be thinking about her sexual past and wondering is she being honest with me? Has she something to hide? Will I be hurt by something that comes out in the future?

    She's not a slut by any means... She has told me a couple things that play on my mind but they shouldn't. I don't know why they do. I think it might be because I feel attached to her and it frightens me. I never thought I'd be like this and it's getting between us...

    It's getting unhealthy and I know it. I'm not comfortable with it all... What would you do if you were me? I really like her and feel really uneasy about bringing this up with her....

    Thanks.


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  • #2
    Bonito
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    Hi Op. I think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie. But if you really must know about her past then ask her. Have you been honest about your own sexual history when she's asked? Are your insecurities being caused by fear of losing her to someone because you feel you're not matching up to past partners?

    She's with you now, you're what she wants. If any of her ex's were better than you she'd still be with them wouldn't she? Set your mind at ease, sounds to me she's with you for the long run and you're going well so far. All relationships have hiccups but if you need to know you're best asking now than further down the line when things are more serious.


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