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how to cope

  • 05-01-2010 4:40pm
    #1
    kats26
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21 ✭


    So this is new to me to write on boards - my bf dumped me without any reason, and then stayed the night with me and went home the following day at about 3.30pm and we had chats that morning while in bed. Now I've been in tears ever since and got a text from him that night to say Night for Old time sake and a few XX - then on Sunday morning got a text to say that he really missed me and just realised the consequence of his decision and I spent the day thinking about it and text him that night asking him did he really mean what he said and he said he did - so I asked could we not give it another try and this time maybe communicate more but he said no that in a few weeks we might just start to aggrivate each other - but what if we didn't start to aggrivate each other, is it not worth the risk - have since found out that a few people asked him did he not think of getting engaged over the holidays - we've been together 8 months, never gave him any indication that i wanted to get engaged - is he just afraid. I have deleted his number from my phone and also deleted him as a friend on facebook but I really miss him and just need advice on what is it men want


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  • #2
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Agreed with SF - and even if it was the engagement thing - why the hell would he not just talk to you about it before dumping you.

    Serious lack of respect for you here...


  • #3
    magneticimpulse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,952 ✭✭✭magneticimpulse


    agreed with above. sounds like he was calling the shots and just had a last shag for the sake of it at your expense. you have already done the right thing and deleted his number and facebook friend. best revenge is to move on and not contact him.


  • #4
    miec
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭miec


    so I asked could we not give it another try and this time maybe communicate more but he said no that in a few weeks we might just start to aggrivate each other - but what if we didn't start to aggrivate each other, is it not worth the risk

    I really felt for you when I read this, I've said similar stuff in the past. Sadly he is not willing to try and no amount of pleading will work. Sadly all you can do is lick your wounds, be super nice to yourself and let him go, he is not worth it and you deserve better than that.


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