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  • 04-01-2010 10:56am
    #1
    Snowie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭


    Not this thread :)...

    but ive noticed something a lot in threads of late...
    I dunno if it makes sense but people don't seem to know what to do with them selve's
    when it comes to attraction for booth oposit sex's.

    They seem to lock up and almost in awaay feel shame for fancying them i dunno if im over analising things or not. While yes, some people are perfectly comfortable with being attracted others arnt .

    Im while I'm at it why is it guys allways go to girls for advice and to there mates ?
    just very curious thats all?

    perfect example http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055786561

    I'd just like to point out im only useing this as an example and that, I buy no means am attacking the person just kinda curious.


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  • #2
    Pricey
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16 ✭Pricey


    Hey Snow Monkey,

    You are right, I commend the man in the other thread that spoke out and looked for advice and then laughed when I saw the advice he was given. (Laughed because its wrong advice he was given)

    Too many men in this society were raised without enough knowledge of the opposite sex, and thats unfortunate. If we want to make our selves healthier, we have a health plan, if we want to make ourselves wealthier, we have business plans, but too many men have not implemented relationship plans, merely because too many men are afraid to speak the truth and lack knowledge in this area.

    I work as a dating coach, the advice this man was given is advice I would never hand down to any of my clients. But his predicament is one of the most common situations that arise.

    while the guys were saying "Tell her, tell her" this is not the correct process, he could be mistaking the signals from this girl for politeness, and if he tells her, and the feeling is not mutual, its embarrassing, and he has to work with this girl in the same room for god knows how long.
    If it was me, I would implement some routines that would generate strong indicators of interest, and build attraction with this girl, done right, it can be exceptionally fast and effective.

    The perfect result: She tells you that she likes you, not the other way round. and that is ten times safer in a work place.

    Pricey


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