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How can girls subtly tell a guy that they fancy them?

  • 04-01-2010 2:52am
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,556 ✭✭✭


    What about men?

    How can a girl subtly let a guy know she's interested?


    Not for me obviously, for, eh, my friend. :cool:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,727 ✭✭✭Midnight_EG


    MizzLolly wrote: »
    What about men?

    How can a girl subtly let a guy know she's interested?


    Not for me obviously, for, eh, my friend. :cool:
    Wear a belly top and G-string ridin half way up your back, then we'll take notice.
    Don't forget leggins and gay shoes to go with them!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,148 ✭✭✭ciano1


    Hand on his crotch..

    Check his reaction


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,354 ✭✭✭smellslikeshoes


    Blowjob.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,556 ✭✭✭MizzLolly


    Who started this thread? :eek:

    How did you do that? huh?? how????


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,727 ✭✭✭Midnight_EG


    Zohannnnnn.


    Tell us next time :mad:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,582 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    MizzLolly wrote: »
    Who started this thread? :eek:

    How did you do that? huh?? how????


    It deserved it's own thread. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,584 ✭✭✭TouchingVirus


    TheZohan wrote: »
    It deserved it's own thread. :)

    Your user title says it all really :P:P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,592 ✭✭✭Dante


    Subtle hints never work! Well....not on me anyways. Anytime a girl has tried to drop hints on me, I never realise it until afterwards when somebody else tells me or until I actually think back about it. I think thats just me though....
    Just act really interested in what he says and does and act all flirty. Oh, and laugh....lots of laughing, even if hes not remotely funny. If that doesn't work, you could try the hand on crotch as ciano1 so thoughtfully mentioned.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,838 ✭✭✭✭3hn2givr7mx1sc


    Grab his arse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    show him your boobs.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,431 ✭✭✭✭Saibh


    baz2009 wrote: »
    Grab his arse.
    Or just tell him he has a lovely bottom...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,584 ✭✭✭TouchingVirus


    Overheal wrote: »
    show him your boobs.

    Not quite subtle unless she's a pornstar, and even then...

    That said, I'm not against displays of boobs to show guys (namely me) that your fancy them (me). Where's the boobs at?

    om nom nom nom


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,838 ✭✭✭✭3hn2givr7mx1sc


    Saibh wrote: »
    Or just tell him he has a lovely bottom...

    Ah but then she might offend the other lads and she'll have to tell them all that they have lovely bottoms.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    When he says something funny, touch him as you laugh (not sexually now :p).

    When a girl is tactile like that with a guy, he thinks .. 'She likes me, oh yeah..' :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,221 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    Wear a belly top and G-string ridin half way up your back, then we'll take notice.
    Don't forget leggins and gay shoes to go with them!

    Do this if you want him to think you have herpes ;)

    Otherwise, just tell him, ya fcuking pussy :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,526 ✭✭✭m@cc@


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    When he says something funny, touch him as you laugh (not sexually now :p).

    When a girl is tactile like that with a guy, he thinks .. 'She likes me, oh yeah..' :)

    That's pretty much spot on.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,431 ✭✭✭✭Saibh


    baz2009 wrote: »
    Ah but then she might offend the other lads and she'll have to tell them all that they have lovely bottoms.
    Tough luck, the other lads will have to find someone else to say it to them :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 884 ✭✭✭ya-ba-da-ba-doo


    knit him a sweater?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,838 ✭✭✭✭3hn2givr7mx1sc


    knit him a sweater?

    Just make sure there's no cake in it.:pac:

    I think I'll go watch some Fr. Ted episodes...


  • Administrators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,957 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Toots


    Get twisted, then stick your tongue down his throat. Gauge reaction. If no resistance offered, ask for phone number. If he gives it, you're in! Worked for me! :o


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,080 ✭✭✭McChubbin


    Whatever happened to the subtle nuance of making your crush a well-thoughout mix tape?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,798 ✭✭✭Local-womanizer


    McChubbin wrote: »
    Whatever happened to the subtle nuance of making your crush a well-thoughout mix tape?

    Mp3s.

    No effort is needed now,not as meaningful as sitting by the radio waiting for the DJ to shut up and having cat-like reactions required to push the record button.Its changed for the worst tbh.

    On topic: suppose you could just tell him,if he says no,so be it,but if he says yes, sexytime!!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,730 ✭✭✭✭entropi


    MizzLolly wrote: »
    What about men?

    How can a girl subtly let a guy know she's interested?


    Not for me obviously, for, eh, my friend. :cool:
    It has to be very direct towards us men tbh, either grab him and kiss him, pull him close and tell him quietly in his ear that you want him or wear a large neon sign that says it for you...

    The smartest of men can still be the dumbest when it comes to reading signals;)


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,644 Mod ✭✭✭✭Manic Moran


    How can a girl subtly let a guy know she's interested?

    She can't.

    Guys don't read 'subtle'

    NTM


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,817 ✭✭✭✭Dord


    Manic moran, I was just about to post the same thing haha! It's very true though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,228 ✭✭✭bluto63


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    When he says something funny, touch him as you laugh (not sexually now :p).

    When a girl is tactile like that with a guy, he thinks .. 'She likes me, oh yeah..' :)

    That usually does it for me. Can't think of any other way you could do it, other than taking your clothes off and yelling 'take me!' but even then some men might miss the point and ask 'where?'


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 78 ✭✭Pingu-D


    Most lads I know (including myself) have no ability whatsoever to read girls "subtle" ways of letting us know ye fancy us

    be as subtle as a brick to the face and either make it blatantly obvious when ye talk or make it blatantly obvious when yer next in a club etc


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 510 ✭✭✭Car Mad


    Ask him if hes as good as daddy :D I have heard of cases of it happening:eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,123 ✭✭✭Spore


    Tell his friends you'd like to 'hit that'


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,584 ✭✭✭✭Creamy Goodness


    Write the message "I like you" then go to your contact list and scroll down to creamy goodness and hit send. Everyone loves creamy goodness.


  • Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 21,504 Mod ✭✭✭✭Agent Smith


    Turn up naked



    Bring pizza


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,262 ✭✭✭✭Joey the lips


    Sit on his lap and talk about the first thing that pops up......:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Tell him you feel moist and have a wide-on


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    Most guys will ride anything, you really shouldn't worry about being subtle.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,264 ✭✭✭✭jester77


    Men don't do subtle, but if you want to be subtle then just walk up to him and say "fancy a roide?"


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,824 ✭✭✭RoyalMarine


    Most guys will ride anything, you really shouldn't worry about being subtle.

    lies.

    mary-harney.jpg


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,110 ✭✭✭Aodan83


    Don't bother with subtlety, he'll never notice. Grqbbin his balls might be qa tad too sublte...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 298 ✭✭alias06


    If you really want to be subtle about it you could just pay him some compliments. Just say a few nice things about him. If a girl paid me a few nice compliments I would at least consider the fact that she liked me.

    If that doesn't work you can always fall back on the "fancy a roide" line. I mean if you're in any way presentable he will fall for that.

    Really though I think you want to be subtle because you're afraid of rejection. You should get over this. Just make sure you let him know you like him and if he's not interested, move on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,588 ✭✭✭derfderf


    You can't be subtle. Chances are there are at least 2 mickey teasers there as well who aren't bein subtle that'll take his attention.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 156 ✭✭kpbdublin


    Hold your gaze longer than normal (look him in the eyes) and casually touch him in conversation.


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    Turn up naked



    Bring pizza

    Better be steak strips on that pizza!

    - Drav!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,467 ✭✭✭Wazdakka


    Well if you want to go for subtle..

    Subtly drop hints that you would love to go to *insert event here* but one of your mates cancelled on you ..

    Then when his guard is down,
    Strip naked from the waist down and run at him screaming "I want you to wear me like an alien" while trying your best to wrap your legs around his neck..

    He should get the idea.

    Subtle too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,132 ✭✭✭novarock


    Offer him "the shift"

    Then cook him a nice steak dinner.

    In no specific order.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,944 ✭✭✭Jay P


    I was in a similar situation a while ago. Apparently this girl liked me for quite a while, but me being so au fait with these kinds of things didn't pick up on it til new years :o

    Just come out and tell him!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,932 ✭✭✭hinault


    tactile approach works.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,905 ✭✭✭✭Handsome Bob


    If any men are like me, they are clueless when it comes to hints and subtlety! :p You might as well be direct about it, the end results will be the same, you'll get a yay or a nay.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,680 ✭✭✭Tellox


    Life's too short to afford being subtle.

    Get drunk, get him drunk. Hold his hand or some ****. Or fall on him in a heap, just don't vomit on him, ****.

    Take it wherever you want from there. Just don't forget nice cup of tea and a blowie to help with the hangover in the morning.


  • Administrators, Social & Fun Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 78,393 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Beasty


    MizzLolly wrote: »
    What about men?

    How can a girl subtly let a guy know she's interested?

    Just drop me an e-mail ..... with photo
    We can take it from there ...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 28,128 ✭✭✭✭Mossy Monk


    Don't be subtle. So many missed opportunities due to people being subtle.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 66 ✭✭julien05


    text him back wat u give em your number in first place cntd rats


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