Is she Shy?

LegacyUser

Hi
Before christmas in college I was in a maths help room,and I really cute girl sat at the same table as me ,opposite me,anyway she was rooting around in her bag for something which she could not find,and I gave her a loan of the thing she was looking for,she said thanks and was grining.Any way she done some maths and went.
She came back a while later but the room was full(no seats)and she was waiting at the door she looked at me in the eyes and grinned.
I was planning on going home soon so I packed up and approached her,and said she could have my seat,I dont think she heard me proper she said 'sorry'and her face went red.I think she taught I said would you like to get something to eat!
Anyway I dont know if shes shy or if She like me.
I went back to the maths room the next week and she was there in the seat I gave her.
Could this be a sign?she was waiting in my seat???
The room was full that day,so I didnt get to sit near her or talk to her,she didnt make eye contact that day but when I walked in her face turned red again and she grinned to her self ocassionaly....
I'm wondering if she is shy or not interested???????

Midnight_EG

Ask her?

Make casual conversation, bring her up to that huuuge food hall you guys have and buy her something, then ask her out sometime?

LegacyUser

I would say the girl is shy so just go over and ask her out.


Gud luck.

LegacyUser

But I am wondering why did she go red ?Is she shy or did she not want to talk to me?
When she was packing up to go the last day I seen her her grinning face turn to a frown (but no eye contact)..was it because she had to go and we didnt get to sit/speak to each other/(or was it ..oh theres that guy again)
I dont want to make her more embarrassed is shes not into me? Just wondering what way other people would view it?

LegacyUser

Hey OP

I agree with the two posters below.

Unfortunately, there's no way to know what shes thinking - you have to take a chance!

Good luck.

BumbleB

It looks that way ,girls send out signals and if you don't act on them they get frustrated . Go for it !:pac:

colly10

Shes probably into you, either way you've got nothing to loose by taking a gamble, go for it

gagomes

based on the behaviour you described above, sounds like you're already idealizing and visualising that girl and possibly developing an interest or affection. I would certainly try to get the facts as clean and as frank as possible. If she's shy, you should be able to determine that if you make direct eye contact when talking to her, However, if she really understood you were inviting her to eat instead of giving her a seat and either way she refused it, that sounds like a neg somehow. Either way, make verbal contact with her and take it from there. As someone mentioned below, you have got nothing to lose, but be on the defensive side as to not hurt yourself emotionally.

LegacyUser

Thanks for the replys
Hopefully I will see her when I get back to college,and I will talk to her again and see how it go's