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is a hole just a hole

  • 26-12-2009 2:40am
    #1
    brettdark
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18 ✭


    Ok just wondering is it odd for a guy not to finnish because he's with the "wrong person". or do most guys just need a wet hole
    Last year I met the perfect girl, We talked, fell in love and I couldnt see myself with anyone else. But things happened and we stopped talking for a bit, during this time I started "seeing" someone else . I never got the same feeling for them tho they liked me.
    We had sex two or three times but I was never able to finnish, and that had never happened before. I had never really gotten the other girl out of my head and didnt see a future with the girl I was with. Now im back with the first girl and things are working well
    I was just wounding if thats weird. or if the guys at work are right and a holes just a hole


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  • #2
    Denerick
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 6,488 ✭✭✭Denerick


    What?


  • #3
    cafecolour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    Uh most guys want someone they're attracted to and/or enjoy being with.

    Depending on personality and levels of inebriation, different guys can bring themselves to finish with people they're less inclined to be attracted to - be it by fantasizing about someone else in their heads as they are doing the deed, or by just being purely, physically in the moment. I wouldn't say that's most guys though, and it's certainly not me.

    If all men truly thought a 'hole was just a hole', then all guys would be bisexual. Ask the lads at work how often they go to the neighborhood glory hole to get a bj from a middle aged gay man ;)


  • #4
    brettdark
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18 ✭brettdark


    I couldnt think about the girl i really liked while i was with this girl, id find it to disrespectful to both of them. I just ended it. I really think I can only be with this girl, and the time that we spent apart has shown me this. But I really thought sex was just sex before all this


  • #5
    Tar.Aldarion
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    brettdark wrote: »
    Ok just wondering is it odd for a guy not to finnish because he's with the "wrong person". or do most guys just need a wet hole
    Last year I met the perfect girl, We talked, fell in love and I couldnt see myself with anyone else. But things happened and we stopped talking for a bit, during this time I started "seeing" someone else . I never got the same feeling for them tho they liked me.
    We had sex two or three times but I was never able to finnish, and that had never happened before. I had never really gotten the other girl out of my head and didnt see a future with the girl I was with. Now im back with the first girl and things are working well
    I was just wounding if thats weird. or if the guys at work are right and a holes just a hole
    You were into somebody else and ddidn't want who you were having sex with. You were over thinking and such


  • #6
    kjl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    to answer you question, obviously not. You are a case in point.


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  • #7
    wylo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,214 ✭✭✭wylo


    it was probably the fact that something was on your mind. My guess would have been, if the first girl didnt even exist and you met this second girl and still werent over attracted to her you probably would have finished. Its just you had something bothering you so it ws inevitable you werent going to enjoy yourself.
    Be it another girl in your life, someone sick in your family, stress from work, its only natural for you not to feel into it.
    So tbh, I think the answer to that question is a matter of opinion. Some people with clear minds will shag anything and finish no problem.
    Others obviously arent as comfortable with that so a hole isnt just hole for them.


  • #8
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 17,378 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    kjl wrote: »
    to answer you question, obviously not. You are a case in point.

    Q.E.D
    QFT
    +1


  • #9
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
    Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
    Have a nice day.
    Thaedydal


  • #10
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    cafecolour wrote: »
    Uh most guys want someone they're attracted to and/or enjoy being with.

    Depending on personality and levels of inebriation, different guys can bring themselves to finish with people they're less inclined to be attracted to - be it by fantasizing about someone else in their heads as they are doing the deed, or by just being purely, physically in the moment. I wouldn't say that's most guys though, and it's certainly not me.

    +1 (apart from the fact I'm a girl)
    But it sounds like you weren't into the girl you were with so you weren't feeling it. Not everyone can just 'bed someone' and be oblivious to everything else. Not everyone can 'get someone else under them' to get over someone else. Doesn't always work that way, so the answer to your question is no.
    Even people who are with someone they like they can't always reach the end for any number of reasons. But this time with you, it seems you weren't into the girl you were with, and so were mentally and emotionally somewhere else.


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