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Nothing Serious

  • 22-12-2009 7:31pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hey guys! I'm a 23 year old male. I'v had a few a relationship but nothing serious so far. A lot of my friends (male and female) say they are not interested in getting married before the age of 30 and that they are not looking for anything "serious". A lot of them have been in relationships before that havn't worked out well and seemed to have given up on relationships for the time being. TBH I'd rather not sleep around till I'm 30. My parents were engaged/married by the time they were my age and the propect of being married within 3 or 4 years appeals to me. Is it just me!? Am I part of generation that has given up on relationships? Am I just looking for a relationship for the sake of it? Am I just looking in the wrong places? I dont want to just give up on relationships but it seem to be a popular thing to do these days!


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  • #2
    annon123
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    To be honest a lot of people aren't ready to settle down at 23 anymore.personally i don't see the problem if you have met the right person, i'm 25 and would have always envisaged being "married" at this stage,however the way things have worked out its the last thing on my mind, my last relationship would have involved serious commitment had he been the right guy,turns out he wasn't. Don't worry, just go with tho flow, don't go searchin for someone to settle with,find a nice partner who makes you happy and see where it leads from there. If i can offer any advice i've been learnin over the last few yrs and that is just go with what ever life throws at you,himself upstairs doesn't seem to like to follow plans so there's no point mapping out your life and getting disappointed,just see what cards you are dealt and play with them :-)


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