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Another break up...

  • 18-12-2009 4:30pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hi all. As the title above says this is another break up thread. Would appreciate a bit of support and advice.
    Basically was with ex for almost 2 years but for past while it has been a friendship more than anything, that was his decision not mine. Anyhow we are involved a lot through work and that was partly why I stuck with the friendship for a while. Of course I was holding a torch and was hoping and waiting for the day he would say he wanted us to be a couple again. Got the usual mixed signals, the talks about how he knows i am the one but is just struggling with the idea of settling down right now. (He's 40). We were the best of friends but the aspect of a relationship was always there. Anyhow for the past few weeks I've stupidly been hoping things would work out for Christmas but now find out he's met someone else. I'm devasted to say the least but know it's been my own fault for letting him string me along for so long. I know I have to cut contact completely and hope you can all keep me strong for the next while.
    Thanks in advance for your advice.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks SF. Its very easy to wallow in self pity but I know I must not let myself do that. Will keep out and about over the holiday period. x


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I know that and my friends tell me no man is worth crying over. I feel like i'm a big baby, i'm in my early 30's fecks sake!! Have had breaks up before but nothing has felt this bad. Maybe it gets harder as we get older.
    I just have to be strong now and make sure and not call or text him.
    His loss. I know i will get over it and one day will find love again.


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