Interracial dating

Affable

Have you dated interracially? I find myself attracted to lots of black, but moreso mixed women and some Asians. I am white. There is instantaneous chemistry between me and white girls at times, but they don't have such a deep lasting appeal, there is something more mysterious, calming etc about black women, I love their presence, they are also very diverse, as genetics dictates. I have been to bed with one who was so relaxed and unpressurising, the sex was easy, lasting and great. Are you a guy/girl? Black/white? Do you tend to be attracted to lighter or darker people? What are your experiences with 'IRR' and how well do they last on a deeper level?
How did your interracial dating differ to within race dating, any problems?

MagicMarker

Never done it, would love to though.

Affable

MagicMarker wrote: »

Never done it, would love to though.

It's good to live in a society well open to it, the more self-conscious the society the harder to look past colour, even if it isnt racist it may have been and is now right on if you get me. But once you can look past it some really interesting chemistry can occur. I suppose I can see why white women would like black and mixed guys too. Like I say, it's the mystery, the diversity, the calm they have.They can be less harsh, though some would say more, i dont see it that way. They have a presence. I'm not really past the stage of a one night stand, though the sex was way easier and better, but It could be a beautiful thing to try a deeper relationship that was interracial. Thats why i ask are their porblems when it really occurs?
I suppose because of the attraction I feel in that direction, I fidn it hard to see why theirs might run in the other direction, and not just towards blacker guys but everyones sexuality is complex i guess. I think previously white women/black guy was more common than vice versa but that's beginning to change

Affable

Must be more folks interested in this.

RandolphEsq

I'd do MOST nationalities. Liberal

Ickle Magoo

I'm female...I've dated different nationalities and races - I have to admit to just liking men - personality & aesthetics depending, of course - but there isn't a particular "type" I am attracted to. I also think a person can just click with someone in the bedroom & have phenomenal sex, I don't think any particular race/nationality is better between the sheets than any other...age & experience probably matter more in that respect.

irish_bob

Affable wrote: »

Have you dated interracially? I find myself attracted to lots of black, but moreso mixed women and some Asians. I am white. There is instantaneous chemistry between me and white girls at times, but they don't have such a deep lasting appeal, there is something more mysterious, calming etc about black women, I love their presence, they are also very diverse, as genetics dictates. I have been to bed with one who was so relaxed and unpressurising, the sex was easy, lasting and great. Are you a guy/girl? Black/white? Do you tend to be attracted to lighter or darker people? What are your experiences with 'IRR' and how well do they last on a deeper level?
How did your interracial dating differ to within race dating, any problems?

always found black women very attractive myself , never went out with one mind you , less attracted to asian women tbh although i would exclude indian women

Affable

Affable wrote: »

Have you dated interracially? I find myself attracted to lots of black, but moreso mixed women and some Asians. I am white. There is instantaneous chemistry between me and white girls at times, but they don't have such a deep lasting appeal, there is something more mysterious, calming etc about black women, I love their presence, they are also very diverse, as genetics dictates. I have been to bed with one who was so relaxed and unpressurising, the sex was easy, lasting and great. Are you a guy/girl? Black/white? Do you tend to be attracted to lighter or darker people? What are your experiences with 'IRR' and how well do they last on a deeper level?
How did your interracial dating differ to within race dating, any problems?

Well... for the first 25 odd years of my life all I was interested in was white women.. never really met anyone else that sparked anything in me. Then I started traveling and my horizons have shifted quite a bit. In the last four years, I've only dated Asian girls. Chinese, Japanese and Thai for the most part.

I've been with a few black girls, but my heart was never in it. Lovely girls, but beyond friendship with the odd sleeping around, nothing serious happened. Now I'm content to stick with my Asian fascination. I've had my best experiences of being in relationships with them, so I'm in no hurry to switch back. For myself, I love drowning in their eyes...

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