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Not sure what happened

  • 12-12-2009 7:55pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey just wanted to get some opinions about this.

    Basically, every week a big group of my friends and I meet up. Theres this girl (a friend of a friend) whos always there. Anyway, things were kinda slow at first (we're both kinda shy) but over time we started talking and later we started kissing. This has been going on for a few weeks now and recently every time the group meets up the two of us just spent the night in the corner chatting and being all coupley together etc, and its been great.

    So I decided to ask her out on a date. When I asked her she was well up for it, saying she was looking forward to it etc. and so was I....but it turned out to be the most cringe worthy date ive ever been on. From the moment I picked her up she just seemed like she didnt want to be there, everything she did or said screamed that she didnt want to be there. If i tried to start up a conversation she'd just cut it off with a sarcastic comment or just wouldnt say anything. The drive back to her house was in total silence, I started speeding up just so i could end the uncomfortable silence sooner, it was that bad.

    I dont see how I could have done anything to offend her or anything and I cant see why she'd suddenly change her mind about me. I just cant seem to figure out why she'd change so suddenly. We havent talked since then (i guess im too scared to text her lol, and even if i wasnt i have no idea what to say) and it just so happens that the big group hasnt met up since then so i havent seen her.

    Apologies for the big long rant but Im just trying to sort it out in my head and i would be very greatfull if anyone could give me some perspective on it.


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  • #2
    magneticimpulse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,952 ✭✭✭magneticimpulse


    Hi
    Are you sure she felt the date went badly as well? Maybe it was the pressure of going on a date that she acted strange. We cannot come to really any conclusions and you didnt seem to have done or said anything wrong. So you either pluck up the courage to chat to her like you did before (dont call it a date if that makes it better). Either way, just move on. You didnt get too involved with her, so it should be easy to go on another date with someone new. All you can do is be yourself on a date. They either like who you are or they dont.


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