To call or not to call?

LegacyUser

Right. I have never asked for an advice on a personal matter like this on so publicly, but I'll give it a shot. So I met this guy about a month ago, we happened to be in the same group travelling abroad, and we hit it off straight away. Spent a lot of time talking and by the end of the trip( it lasted almost two weeks) we decided to see each other again back at home. Met up for a date last week, it went great, so I suggested we meet up this weekend, which he readily agreed to. I emailed him the other day to congratulate him an a certain important event in his life, cause i thought it would be polite to do so. He replied, we had a friendly banter, no mentioning of another date of either side though. Now it's Thursday, I haven't heard from him and I would like to know if we are meeting up or not. If not, then I'd make other plans. Of course I would rather see him as I really like this guy.Should I text him or call him and just casually ask if we are still on? Any thoughts on that matter, especially from guys, would be appreciated.

Taltos

I see no harm in just calling him.
Personally texts are just too - well too easy to misinterpret and too easy to think - "I'll reply later" and promptly forget about.

Just give him a call - see if he is still on for this weekend and hopefully he will be. I know I always preferred the call - esp when the other voice was friendly

Chances are your 1st date was not the best due to nerves or a range of other things. Just go out and have some fun.

LegacyUser

Didn't manage to get him on the phone, it was seemingly off, or maybe i got the number wrong, as we never texted or called each other.But emailed him instead and he got back to me pretty quickly, meeting him tomorrow night!! So relieved!! Thanks for the reply !!

SarahSassy

Well done Have fun.