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carpe diem or wait and see????????

  • 30-11-2009 12:22am
    #1
    Kingkong
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    I have a delima wehther I push or wait and see.

    In recent months, I have become quiet close with a friend so much so I would say there is an intimacy between us.

    I told her a while back I had feeling for her but she had become involved with someone, which i didnt know about, making its complicated and I backed down.

    She is now seeing this person. However, the other night I was in her place and she seemed so comfortable we me, I was holding her, etc... and I got a very strong impression she wouldnt have said no if I tried to score her.

    However, I am reminded of her habit of flirting and leading people on, but ... I really do think there is something there.

    Girls can be awful teases and she shouldn't have acted in the way she did if she was 100% committed to her man. Do girls keep a 'backup' in case the 1st preference cant working out!

    What really annoys me is myself, because I cant stop playing replay in my head. What if I just tried to get suck in and f**k the consequences!

    Is there truth in the phrase 'carpe diem', am I guilty of being the typical Irish Guy and not having the balls to take the risk. Or do all good things come the those who wait?

    Taughts /suggestions /Criticisms welcomed:pac:


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  • #2
    ash23
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,791 ✭✭✭ash23


    Kingkong wrote: »
    I have a delima wehther I push or wait and see.

    In recent months, I have become quiet close with a friend so much so I would say there is an intimacy between us.

    I told her a while back I had feeling for her but she had become involved with someone, which i didnt know about, making its complicated and I backed down.

    She is now seeing this person. However, the other night I was in her place and she seemed so comfortable we me, I was holding her, etc... and I got a very strong impression she wouldnt have said no if I tried to score her.

    However, I am reminded of her habit of flirting and leading people on, but ... I really do think there is something there.

    Girls can be awful teases and she shouldn't have acted in the way she did if she was 100% committed to her man. Do girls keep a 'backup' in case the 1st preference cant working out!

    What really annoys me is myself, because I cant stop playing replay in my head. What if I just tried to get suck in and f**k the consequences!

    Is there truth in the phrase 'carpe diem', am I guilty of being the typical Irish Guy and not having the balls to take the risk. Or do all good things come the those who wait?

    Taughts /suggestions /Criticisms welcomed:pac:


    She shouldn't be getting that intimate with you if she's with someone else. She may well be up for cheating on him but she's still with him. She knows how you feel and she's still with him. Not you. That should tell you all you need to know.
    Unless you value yourself so little that you are willing to be her bit on the side. The one she screws occasionally but only in secret.
    Great start to a relationship.

    Give her a wide berth in my opinion. If you must keep seeing her then have some self restraint and stop being physically close to her.

    You say she's a flirt, leads people on etc. Sounds like she knows you like her and is playing up to that for the attention. Great catch :rolleyes:


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