Emotionally volatile

LegacyUser

Goin out with a girl. I can't seem to make head nor tails of the emotions I feel from day to day. Sometimes I will feel on top of the world and everything's great and other days I will not want to be near her and miss her then when she's gone. I saw a pic from her past and she looks really well and with another guy in the pic and it turned my stomach.

The other thing I can't take is that she had sex with two other guys. I just can't get that thought out of my head. Just gets to me. It shouldn't and I try not to let it but can't help it. It's getting to me so much. Funny thing is I've had sex in the past with other people too. Any advice? Thanks.

wylo

I cant offer any advice, but ill watch this thread with interest, its a tough one , ive been there myself. Its just classic jealousy that's all, but its completely unwarranted and can end up ruining a relationship if you were to start acting up on these feelings. I never acted up on them but it still ate me inside at the time. It was ridiculous and I knew it. I think when you get a bit older and perhaps a bit more secure, these feelings fall away a bit. Id imagine when you find someone that you can completely trust and feel relaxed with then youve found someone special.
I might add , you should never have been in a situation where you saw her in a photo with an ex, thats all well and good if its a long term serious relationship, but if its just starting out NOBODY likes looking at them kind of photos, so I wouldnt feel bad about that incident. Nothing more off putting than pictures/conversations about the ex when your just starting to meet someone.

DubLass

Its just immaturity and insecurity, everyone has had a life before you met them, put it to the back of your head.