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not sure what to think

  • 28-11-2009 4:11am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    saw on a social networking site, my gf was talking to one of her friends, her friend said that some guy was eyeing her up at a club and that there was some unspoken chemistry, then my gf was like "no chemistry! ! I was just sitting there and he started grabbing me I nearly had a heart attack ! " should I be worried that she is chatting up guys in clubs and stuff..i get paranoid about this, I don't wanna say I was checkin up on her site and stuff


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  • #2
    Contessa Raven
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 642 ✭✭✭Contessa Raven


    It sounds to me like she was minding her own business and that this guy came over and started chatting her up. She doesn't respond and so he get's a bit miffed and starts grabbing her. He was probably just a drunk randomer who was taking his chances.

    It sounds like she didn't encourage him and wasn't interested tbh. Her friend probably said that there was "unspoken chemistry" in jest to wind her up. I wouldn't worry just yet, OP.

    CR


  • #3
    krudler
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    OP women get chatted up in clubs and pubs, goes with the territory, if she told him get lost then you shouldnt have anything to worry about, if she was playing along and flirting with people I'd be worried but you cant stop drunk guys trying to talk to her, that'll happen every other weekend


  • #4
    magneticimpulse
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,952 ✭✭✭magneticimpulse


    i got chatted up all the time when i was out at parties etc. its very common. but all of the time it was unwanted attention. i just happened to be on a night out and my boyfriend wasnt there so these guys were not to know i had a boyfriend. i would always make it clear to them that i had a boyfriend.

    so really this is nothing to be worried about. relationships are all about trust and you have to trust that when your girlfriend goes out she will get chatted up and she will most likely say she already has a boyfriend. im sure you go out and equally the same things can happen to you! it works both ways


  • #5
    Giblet
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,989 ✭✭✭✭Giblet


    She can't put up some protective barrier with the words "BOYFRIEND!" on it, so yeah, a guy is gonna take his chances, and some are pushier than others. Looks like she didn't want to have anything to do with it! Relax OP


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