When good girlfriends turn into bad wives

Master_Key

My absolutely magnicifent girlfriend of 7 or so years has been in a volatile state of pouty passive aggressiveness for the past year or more since our marriage. Also, who replaced the vixen with the insatiable carnal appetite with this alien frigit & angry creature?:(

Note: on the outside, to onlookers, acquaintences and friends all would be presented as positively dandy!

I love her very much and treat her accordingly but my mood is beginning to sour as this new 'phase' has been rough and long enough to undo the many very fond memories and experiences which we have shared over the years.

Has anyone else experienced such a turn around?

shqipshume

Master_Key wrote: »

My absolutely magnicifent girlfriend of 7 or so years has been in a volatile state of pouty passive aggressiveness for the past year or more since our marriage. Also, who replaced the vixen with the insatiable carnal appetite with this alien frigit & angry creature?:(

Note: on the outside, to onlookers, acquaintences and friends all would be presented as positively dandy!

I love her very much and treat her accordingly but my mood is beginning to sour as this new 'phase' has been rough and long enough to undo the many very fond memories and experiences which we have shared over the years.

Has anyone else experienced such a turn around?

Get her to a doctor sounds bipolar or something else.Does she work or stay at home? Have you got kids?

Elba101

Maybe you could, i don't know, ask her if there is something wrong?

dr.bollocko

Moved from AH

Elba101

Ah op there could be a million things wrong with her (one of which could even be you!) Just ask her, in a nice so she doesn't get all defensive. And listen to the answer. That's where most men fail at this task

Miss Fluff

Have you taken this up with her OP? What reasons is she giving you?

xzanti

Anti climax from the wedding?

SarahSassy

There must be something you are missing or not explaining. When does she 'turn'?

Maybe married life is not all she expected it to be. I suppose her husband calling her frigid wouldnt help?

OS119

i'm assuming he didn't start calling her frigid until after she'd changed her behaviour....

SarahSassy

OS119 wrote: »

i'm assuming he didn't start calling her frigid until after she'd changed her behaviour....

Well something went very wrong and it only seems to be him she is annoyed with.

OS119

something else may well be wrong - but the OP hasn't mentioned it.

remarkable how so many fun-loving, lust-craved size 10 nympho's turn into bitter, size 16 celebates as soon as the 50% is secure and they no longer fear getting dumped for a firmer, happier model.

must be something in the water - or some other equally entirely obvious unexplainable phenomenon....

The Recliner

OS119 wrote: »

something else may well be wrong - but the OP hasn't mentioned it.

remarkable how so many fun-loving, lust-craved size 10 nympho's turn into bitter, size 16 celebates as soon as the 50% is secure and they no longer fear getting dumped for a firmer, happier model.

must be something in the water - or some other equally entirely obvious unexplainable phenomenon....

OS119 that adds nothing to the thread, any further remarks like that and you will be on the naughty step

Beetlebum

OS119 wrote: »

something else may well be wrong - but the OP hasn't mentioned it.

remarkable how so many fun-loving, lust-craved size 10 nympho's turn into bitter, size 16 celebates as soon as the 50% is secure and they no longer fear getting dumped for a firmer, happier model.

must be something in the water - or some other equally entirely obvious unexplainable phenomenon....

Yeah...and all the while so many men get younger, fitter and sexier and the years roll by:rolleyes:

feckthepeas

OS119 wrote: »

remarkable how so many fun-loving, lust-craved size 10 nympho's turn into bitter, size 16 celebates as soon as the 50% is secure and they no longer fear getting dumped for a firmer, happier model.

Yes because all of us size 16 females are worthless specimens of humanity only fit for the spinster's seat at bingo? Horrible generalisation :rolleyes:

Silverfish

Alright everyone, back on topic.

Helpful constructive advice to the OP only, please.

Taltos

OP we really do not have enough information here.
But I think neither do you...

Maybe have a chat or suggest a visit to a doc.
Could be that after all the hard work and hype of the wedding something is off with her and she is finding it hard to recapture her old self.

We are all guessing though - so sit her down and ask her how she if feeling.
Don't accuse / throw names or refer to her as your cuddly but cold teddy bear