Feckin Women!

Xinkai · 25-11-2009 2:21am #1

Not really a baww thread, met this girl a few weeks ago thought she was amazin, so ive been textin her for the past few weeks too, finally yesterday decided to ask her out, & got the balls to, havent had a gf or a date in a good 2 years, was never confident enough, inb4 loser, so anyways, i asked her, and i got back aw thats sweet but im only getting over a bad break up sorry! So i says aw ok thats understandable, but how would you like to hang out sometime maybe? and she said yeah ok id like that

So confidence shot even further down, but maybe salvaged a tad? My question is, what do i do next?

pikachucheeks · 25-11-2009 2:21am

Fap?
:rolleyes:

Anna Molly · 25-11-2009 2:22am

Build a bridge! :P

Seriously, not the girl's fault she's after breaking up with someone.
Spend time with her and see how it goes.

The_B_Man · 25-11-2009 2:24am

Tell her the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else! durrrty!!

minidazzler · 25-11-2009 2:25am

Xinkai wrote: »

Not really a baww thread, met this girl a few weeks ago thought she was amazin, so ive been textin her for the past few weeks too, finally yesterday decided to ask her out, & got the balls to, havent had a gf or a date in a good 2 years, was never confident enough, inb4 loser, so anyways, i asked her, and i got back aw thats sweet but im only getting over a bad break up sorry! So i says aw ok thats understandable, but how would you like to hang out sometime maybe? and she said yeah ok id like that

So confidence shot even further down, but maybe salvaged a tad? My question is, what do i do next?

Either Take it to RI for real advice or realise she doesn't like you, she doesn't want to hang out with you.

She just said that to be nice!!!

If this was in RI I would say basically the same thing but ALOT nicer.

artanevilla · 25-11-2009 2:25am

Ah well!

minidazzler · 25-11-2009 2:26am

pikachucheeks wrote: »

Fap?
:rolleyes:

The state of the women we have on boards, thinking a fap is the answer for everything!!

Clearly he needs some coke and hookers!

orourkeda · 25-11-2009 2:27am

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymBn5kLln2c&feature=PlayList&p=98F9DEA0E7697FCB&index=47

Ask quagmire

we'llallhavetea_old · 25-11-2009 2:27am

+1 on the ****. you have to love yourself before you can truely love others.

'n stuff.

GLaDOS · 25-11-2009 2:29am

Be a friend, that is the basis of a true relationship and that is what she needs. Build up trust between the two of you and help her get over her old boyfriend.

Then chloroform the bitch

Sofiztikated · 25-11-2009 2:32am

minidazzler wrote: »

The state of the women we have on boards, thinking a fap is the answer for everything!!

Clearly he needs some coke and hookers!

What? How. Dare. You.

Fapping is the answer to everything. Apart from, "Hey, do you want to spend some time with the kids?"

Fap first. Then Coke, Hookers and Blackjack.

Jesus, what are people thinking these days.

xmcp · 25-11-2009 2:33am

you were let down easy mate. onto coppers this weekend and the next girl for yourself.

maybe you were texting her too much, too much sh ite, i like to ask 'em out for drinks within the first 10 texts, unless the texting is flowing very nicely.

Xinkai · 25-11-2009 2:34am

ScienceNerd wrote: »

Be a friend, that is the basis of a true relationship and that is what she needs. Build up trust between the two of you and help her get over her old boyfriend.

Then chloroform the bitch

yeah yeah chloroforms good keep goin

5starpool · 25-11-2009 2:34am

Make a voodoo doll of her, google those magic arts, and she'll be all yours within the month. Save the use of pins for if she still resists though. Could get messy.

Anna Molly · 25-11-2009 2:35am

Xinkai wrote: »

yeah yeah chloroforms good keep goin

making note???:o

GLaDOS · 25-11-2009 2:36am

Xinkai wrote: »

yeah yeah chloroforms good keep goin

I think your parents should really explain the next part if they haven't already

pikachucheeks · 25-11-2009 2:37am

Xinkai wrote: »

yeah yeah chloroforms good keep goin

Invite her over for some rohypnol and Coke.

Anna Molly · 25-11-2009 2:37am

ScienceNerd wrote: »

I think your parents should really explain the next part if they haven't already

When a mommy and daddy love each-other very much...
Although, I think you're **** out of luck, it aint february.

Jesus Wept · 25-11-2009 2:38am

Anna Molly wrote: »

Seriously, not the girl's fault she's after breaking up with someone.
.

Oh I see what you did there, you took what she said at face value.

Anyhow...

Best of luck OP, but you probably took far too long to ask her out/drop the hand and are likely in the friend-zone.

Anna Molly · 25-11-2009 2:39am

The-Rigger wrote: »

Oh I see what you did there, you took what she said at face value.

Anyhow...

Best of luck OP, but you probably took far too long to ask her out/drop the hand and are likely in the friend-zone.

Don't wanna crush the dude anymore than he already is..

two years!!

minidazzler · 25-11-2009 2:43am

The-Rigger wrote: »

Oh I see what you did there, you took what she said at face value.

Anyhow...

Best of luck OP, but you probably took far too long to ask her out/drop the hand and are likely in the friend-zone.

Worst place EVER.

OP, there is NO escape!! None at all!!! Don't be friends with her. Treat her mean and she will crawl to you.

30txsbzmcu2k9w · 25-11-2009 2:44am

dont bother hangin out with her anytime soon anyway, you'll just end up in the dreaded friends zone. best to cut your losses really

<edit> *loads of other people have been in the friends zone here too i see. My god is that a b1tch to get out of

Rondolfus · 25-11-2009 2:57am

Xinkai wrote: »

Not really a baww thread, met this girl a few weeks ago thought she was amazin, so ive been textin her for the past few weeks too, finally yesterday decided to ask her out, & got the balls to, havent had a gf or a date in a good 2 years, was never confident enough, inb4 loser, so anyways, i asked her, and i got back aw thats sweet but im only getting over a bad break up sorry! So i says aw ok thats understandable, but how would you like to hang out sometime maybe? and she said yeah ok id like that

So confidence shot even further down, but maybe salvaged a tad? My question is, what do i do next?

The best thing to do now is to come on even stronger. Certainly don't back off, you have her on the ropes. Girls love two things, sex and surprises, so why not combine the two with "surprise sex"??

Text her non stop and when she doesn't reply, text her telling her to reply. Remember Girls love men that are assertive.

Girls also want a man that can protect them so sit outside her house at night (in a car or bush), when she asks what you're doing, say that you are watching over her.

another good tip is to ring her in the middle of the night and just cry into the phone. Women can't get enough of a man in touch with their feminine side.

If she reacts badly to any of the above don't worry she is just playing hard to get. If she doesn't, she likes you anyway so its win win

brendansmith · 25-11-2009 3:08am

ScienceNerd wrote: »

Be a friend, that is the basis of a true relationship and that is what she needs. Build up trust between the two of you and help her get over her old boyfriend.

Then chloroform the bitch

ANd give her the shocker!