Oral sex on bf

LegacyUser

Hi guys,
I hope this is the right place to ask but I recently let my bf cum in my mouth during oral sex. It was very good and we really love each other but I just want to see if my experince was normal.

Afterwards we kissed, I had lightly rinsed my mouth out with water, but when we kissed some white stuff dried on both our lips. I could also feel a sort of slimey feeling in my mouth for the rest of the day, and it sort of lined my throat, I coughed up some small bits of sort of gelatinous fluid (some semen I guess) later that day. It was as if it got caught on my tonsils.


I guess I am curious if this is what always happens. I know I could have just used some strong mouthwash after, but I wanted to see how it worked out naturally.
So is the slimey feeling on the roof of your mouth normal? or the feeling that there is some still in your throat, as if it was on my tonsils almost.


Apologies for the graphic details,
Ruby x

St James

What exactly is the problem?

barleybooley

Hi OP
Seeing as the previous poster hasn't been so helpful I'll tell you what I know: that has never happened to me or my mate sitting here with me but it coud be just a case that everyone's different. Maybe try googling it or seeing if it happens the next time. Either way, I don't think it's an indication of anything serious. Hope this helps.

dudara

St James wrote: »

What exactly is the problem?

St James If you have nothing helpful to add to the conversation, then please refrain from joining in.

dudara

DubLass

If you are worried dont do it anymore!!

Kevster

This should be moved to the sexuality forum, and the OP should register to post there as such. However, I must emphasise what DubLass has said but I'll put it in a different guise: Don't ever do anything you do'nt want to. Some guys will try to 'force' you to do certain acts on them, but just walk away if you are uncomfortable with it.

As a specific response to your problem, however, you should just have a drink of something with a slice of bread or two afterwards. I'm sure that would remove the 'icky' feeling.

Kevin

MmmmmCheese

Thats never happened me before but the stuff you're coughing up sounds like tonsil stones: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tonsillolith

Darthhoob

i can't say that has ever happened to me. sorry i cannot be more helpful than that it's never 'stuck around' in my mouth/throat before.....well...the taste can linger for a little while :pac:

St James

apologies for upsetting people. it was not my intention. i genuinely did nto understand what the problem was - was it the cough, the lips , the tonsils or possible other worries or technique.

apologies to all I upset.

tfak85

i wouldn't worry yourself too much ruby, as you said yourself you could have just used some mouthwash and it would have cleared it all straight away..

personally, if i swallow i don't feel too hot for about an hour after...

if you start to find your symptoms persisting head to your GP or GPs nurse and tell them about it, they can have a look in your throat if you're really concerned!

enjoy each other and indeed say no if you don't like it!

Satyr_The_Great

From experience with an ex of mine the experiences you have or had are normal. the exact same things happend her and after a while she got used to it... Nothing to worry about.

manbadger

gotta love oral sex eh

Nevyn

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Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
Have a nice day.
Thaedydal

seamus

Semen is (partially) hydrophobic and doesn't really wash well with cold water - water tends to dry it out and make it stickier! Saliva would be more effective at breaking it down, so you may be better off trying to use that to rinse out your mouth.

I've never had to do it but drinking or rinsing with something a little more powerful afterwards may do it - alcohol (may not be reasonable) or cola, or something hot like tea or coffee.

magneticimpulse

well i would wash my mouth and teeth always afterwards, especially if your going to kiss your boyfriend afterwards and there is semen coming out! men normally dont like to eat their own semen. as for it coming back, you must not have swallowed, as it doesnt stick around like this. its also not nice to go around the day and not have washed, because semen has a particular distinctive smell which everybody recognises. women are especially genetically in touch with this smell and if your going home to your parents or work and there is dried in semen on your mouth, its not very good at all.

on the up side, it is normal to have oral sex. just be aware STDs can also be passed on by oral sex.

b28

St James wrote: »

What exactly is the problem?

I agree with st.james! whats the problem! initially when i read the title of the thread, i thought you're boyfriend was forcing you or pressuring you into oral sex ie bj! but only thing i can say to you is make sure he's clean before you do anything! you CAN get an std from oral sex especially if it's unprotected!!!!! i know hormones dominate common sense, but for your own sake, try and make sure you're partner is monogamous and clean before you engage in unprotected sex, as the consequences can be quite regrettable!

castle

OP
First of to let you BF cum in your mouth is a real sign of affection and love from you, and I hope he appreciates you for this. I know some guys who don't even get a BJ and this really saddens me to hear this,
If you swallow straight away and wash your teeth after all should be finr