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Ex keeps texting me!

  • 12-11-2009 10:56pm
    #1
    josh90
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6 ✭


    So me and my girlfriend of 1 year split up a few weeks, actually she ended it. So then there was a couple of weeks of silence with no contact. but the last couple of days she has been texting me, asking how i am, what im doing, just small talk etc. Can anyone tell me if this means anything? does she want to give me another try? how do i approach this? i would love to have her back more than anything, thanks guys,
    Josh


Comments

  • #2
    jellyboy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 615 ✭✭✭jellyboy


    Hi op

    How about ringing her and going for a coffee /chat...

    That should end the thinking for her ....

    Good luck...


  • #3
    Hallo World
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20 ✭Hallo World


    I'm gonna go the other way on this.

    Ignore her texts.. she could be feeding you 'breadcrumbs' trying to validate the guilt she is feeling, sucking you into some kind of pseudo friendship that will allow her to heal and leave you in a heap of questions every time ya leave her,

    if she wants you back nothing short of "I made a mistake and I wanna talk about how we can reconcile" would get my attention...

    Mostly, if or when she starts talking to you, you do not give the impression you WILL DEFINITELY take her back, you give her the impression you MIGHT take her back.. just in case theres any insinserity on her behalf..


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I'm in a similar situation myself. Broke up with ex of about a year a couple of months back. In the last couple of weeks he's been texting me a fair bit, which I find weird because I think he's seeing someone else now.

    Anyhow I'm probably over-thinking it. But he wants his to be friends and I don't think that'd work for me.


  • #5
    Hallo World
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20 ✭Hallo World


    sameboat wrote: »
    I'm in a similar situation myself. Broke up with ex of about a year a couple of months back. In the last couple of weeks he's been texting me a fair bit, which I find weird because I think he's seeing someone else now.

    Anyhow I'm probably over-thinking it. But he wants his to be friends and I don't think that'd work for me.


    think ya have your answer there sameboat... ignore him.. that friend things is waaaay too hard if ya not on the same playing field..


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ignore her texts.. she could be feeding you 'breadcrumbs' trying to validate the guilt she is feeling, sucking you into some kind of pseudo friendship that will allow her to heal and leave you in a heap of questions every time ya leave her
    Excellent. Extremely insightful. I wish I read this two years ago.

    Cut your losses and move on OP. It hurts but it's quicker.


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