Too Full on?

LegacyUser

Just a quick question, would like others opinions.

So about 3 weeks ago a friend of my room-mate was back in the aprtment. Never met her before but immediatly I was like Woo... I mean she was really hot, exactlymy type.

Anyway few of sat around for a cpl hours just chatting, and she seemed a really cool down to earth girl also.

Anyway I said it to my roommate a few days later messing more then anything that she needs to hook me up.

Thing is she came back to me a few days later, and said Ive good news I think my friend likes ya, apparently they were talking about going to a gig, and deciding was it worthe the bother when the friend said, well would your roommate "jAKE" (FAKE NAME JUST IN CASE) be on for going.

Now I don't know, don't really read too much into this kinda thing i mean i wasn't there so it could have been a flippant off the cuff remark, but my roomate seems to think shes into me.

Now ill no doubt run into her again and will definatley test the waters then, but I don't know when this will be, i mean I haven't seen her since that night almost a month ago.

So I was wondering do you think i should just get her number off my roommate and drop her a text and see!! Or is this a bit too much I mean I only met her once and among a group of ppl. Trying to get the roommate to het her back to the apart again but she knows the friend better then me so don't want to push things there either.

Is it better just to wait and see what happens?? She was really cool though doubt she will be available for long, saying this i have a history of blowing such situations by 1) coming on to strong or 2) not coming on at all and ending in friendzone , can't seem to find the happy medium

krudler

Why not have a few people over for drinks and make sure she's invited, nice relaxed atmoshpere, can chat to her and other people so she doesnt feel like you're hounding her throughout the night, take it from there, or just send her a text and ask her out,sometimes the direct approach works best

kinda wary

kinda wary wrote: »

can't seem to find the happy medium

I think a happy medium would be getting in touch with her directly and asking her out.

shellyboo

So what, your roomate went back and it just coincidentally came up in conversation... my arse. She went to her mate and said "Jake fancies you, interested?" And her friend said "Yeah! Don't tell him I said that though, make something up so we can hook up."

Ask her out!

carlychick

i agree with the last post.
go for it and have a good time.

JohnThomas09

Shellyboo is right.She is definetly into you.Ask her out.

Pyr0

Ask for her number, send her a text sometime. I'm sure you'll bump into each other at some point, if so ask her out for a drink or whatever.

Simple !