Love experienced girls

LegacyUser

Going unreg for this as it's embarrassing. Basically, I'm a 26 year old guy, very sexual person and have had a lot of partners, both relationships and one nighters. I've come to realise that I'm really turned on by 'slutty' girls, not just to sleep with but to go out with. I hear all my mates referring to girls as sluts and slappers if they put out on the first date but I love it. My last girlfriend slept with me a few hours after we met and we ended up dating for almost 2 years. Yes, she could be called a slut (dressed provocatively, lots of partners etc) but I loved it. It turned me on seeing her go out for a night out in a low cut top, knowing all the fellas would be looking at her tits and she'd be loving it (she was faithful though!) We used to do dirty talk in bed about guys she'd slept with in the past and one night stands she'd had. I'm seeing a new girl now and we do similar things, although she's been with fewer men than my ex. I often find myself wishing she'd been with more and had more to tell me (love her to bits but that would be really hot). Is this just weird??

minidazzler

No, not weird at all TBH, we all have our preferences.

You like a girl that knows what she's doing and isn't ashamed of herself.

Well done to you.

It's not like it affects you badly. Your mates may slag your GF or whatever, but you can tell them to STFU and that you are having great sex.

enjoy it OP.

Liam Byrne

To me it'd be weird, particularly talking about what they did with their exes......and while I wouldn't be gone on the "slapper" look or someone who's had hundreds of partners, the fact is that they can't be that bad if you went out with one of them for two years; not much scope to have hundreds of ex partners if you do that every two or three years....

So the only real oddity is talking about the exes.

But then there's all sort of fetishes that people can enjoy, so I guess there's someone for everyone......

I'd be wary of you "wishing" that about your ex, though; enjoy her for who she is (and she wouldn't be the exact same person if she hadn't had her up-to-now experiences, and that includes the number of partners).

It's almost the reverse of the usual "numbers" question that shouldn't be asked......and you should be with someone because of who they are, not what you wish they were.

G-Money

Whatever floats your boat, but from my own point of view, if it was someone I was emotionally attached to, the last thing I'd want to think about is all the guys she was with. Especially if it was a lot (which would put me off her to begin with to be honest). I mean if I like a girl, I barely like to think she has even kissed anyone else. But I realise that's unreasonable of me to think about, but that doesn't mean that I like it, but I just have to try and not think about it and for the most part, I can.

I suppose what stands out at me is what do you really like about this girl and is your whole relationship on a superficial/sexual level. Maybe you can be close to her emotionally and still be ok with talk of her partners. If so, that's ok. I know I wouldn't be personally.

But as someone else said, it's a bit unusual to sort of wish your current gf had more partners etc. But then, I guess if you are both on the same page and both are happy, that's what matters. I guess the only "issue" might be if this wish is something you can't get past. Then you might ruin into issues.

Either way, all the best.