What if she's pregnant?

LegacyUser

I'm 17 years of age, and we've been together a few months now.

I have a feeling she is pregnant. She's been sick yesterday, feels unwell lately and has a few hives on her body. We're both virgins, too. The only thing that could've started it was a small bit of dry humping, and I didn't even ejaculate. I doubt anything soaked through :S

The only thing is that she had her period last week, which is just sending me mixed messages.

If she is, what do I do? I'd leave school, get a job, etc. but it's just scaring me. Maybe im paranoid? I'd never go near her parents again, and some people will be massively disappointed

cupcakes_mcgee

I really doubt she is pregnant if you're both virgins. But if you are still worried just do a pregnancy test. If she has been feeling unwell for a few days it might be a good idea to see a doctor just to make sure she's ok and while your there you could discuss your worries with your doctor. You shouldn't be ashamed and don't worry about what the doctor will think, they've heard things like that a million times.
Seroiusly you need to stop stressing out.

Bottle_of_Smoke

She's not. What could "soak through" if you didn't ejaculate? Also the cervix is at the back of the vagina and thats where the unejaculated sperm would need to get.

I understand the worry at your age but you really don't need to be. If she is pregnant its not yours.

minidazzler

OP, for her to be Pregnant your Pre-cum assuming there was some would have had to soak through your pants (and underpants?) Her Pants (and Undies?) Work its way into her vagina and all the way into her uterus.

Ockhams razor. She is coming down with something different!!

Besides the puking stage of pregnancy comes much later than a week after her period and only NOW is she in her Fertile period.

There is so little evidence to support her being pregnant that it is basically Impossible for her to be given the situation you described.

LegacyUser

help meee:( wrote: »

I'm 17 years of age, and we've been together a few months now.

I have a feeling she is pregnant. She's been sick yesterday, feels unwell lately and has a few hives on her body. We're both virgins, too. The only thing that could've started it was a small bit of dry humping, and I didn't even ejaculate. I doubt anything soaked through :S

The only thing is that she had her period last week, which is just sending me mixed messages.

If she is, what do I do? I'd leave school, get a job, etc. but it's just scaring me. Maybe im paranoid? I'd never go near her parents again, and some people will be massively disappointed

as everyone else she is not pregnant
1 - you are both virgins
2 - you dry humped
3 - you did not ejaculate inside of her
4 - she had her period last week

having hives is not a symptom of being pregnant and as for her feeling sick - its flu season

take a breath and relax

martdalto

She's not pregnant.

She most likely has the tummy bug that's going around. My 2 year old daughter is a bit vommity, and feels sick constantly, SHE'S definitely not pregnant!

The fact that you are both virgins would make it really, really unlikely (almost impossible) that she would get pregnant anyway. If none of your seminal fulids have any contact with her vagina, you can bet that you are safe.

If she had a period a week ago she is not pregnant. Most women are fertile 14 days BEFORE their next period (which, if the cycle is a regular 28 days.. is usally 14 days after the start of the last one).

It might be worth you and her BOTH educating yourselves a bit on the facts of life, contraception methods etc. You sound like a very sensible couple, the fact that you haven't slept together yet, and the fact that you are already worrying about pregnancy!

Before you take the next step (whenever that maybe) make sure you now all you can about what it is you're doing, and the various and many ways of preventing pregnancy. It might be worth going to talk to a doctor or a family planning clinic together.

Good Luck - stop worrying.

(To have hives, at this time of the year, it' s possible she has eaten something she's allergic to, or maybe changed washing powder or something??)

LegacyUser

Maybe she sat on a toilet seat???? An no sorry, don't be worrying yourself she's not pregnant you poor thing. I don't mean to sound condescending but you might nee to buck up on the sex ed you seem to have some naive ideas about how babies are made.

fend

She's not pregnant... Don't worry...


In a few years you'll look back at this scenario and have a laugh about it.

Faith

She's not pregnant. End of. Unless you have super-sperm that can travel through layers of clothes. Without ever actually being ejaculated.