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For All You People Who Have Just Broken Up...My Experience

  • 03-11-2009 12:57pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey guys,

    I was with my girlfriend for a couple of months. We broke it off last week, she dumping me. I was DEVASTATED. This hit me at a time when I was having a lot of trouble at home. She said it would be better if we were 'just friends'. I pushed for friends with benefits, but no dice seemingly. Accordingly, I said that we couldn't be 'just friends', because if we weren't friends with benefits, it was me just being another 'guy pal' for her.

    Why I did this, you ask? Well, I have no shame in saying that I still love her. The mixture of pain and love in me, is sickening me. How can I love someone who caused me such pain? If I want to be true friends with her, I should break it off completely, and suddenly, and let myself grieve, before becoming 'just friends'. If I wanted to get back with her, its best to break it off suddenly, and let her know what shes missing, rather than letting her rationalise our 'friendship' to help her with the grieving process. Imagine her, thinking that we are friends, removing her romantic feelings for me, and me hoping that as a 'friend', that we would get back together....leads to hurt feelings. She said she wouldn't even go to an event we had planned at Christmas. What sort of friend is that?!

    She has been removed from Myspace,Bebo, and Facebook, instant messaging and I even deleted her phone number. It hurts like HELL, but in the long run, it will be better...for her, and I.

    I just wanted to let people know the situation I'm in, and how I'm dealing with it. Please guys and gals....DON'T fall into the 'friend zone'...at least not straight away. Allow yourself time to breathe.

    Geezer


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