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Small question

  • 01-11-2009 6:55pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 312 ✭✭


    I asked this woman out and she replied "I can't get into a relationship right now"
    Would this be a nice way of saying shes not interested? She seemed genuinely sad with her response so its made me wonder.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    I asked this woman out and she replied "I can't get into a relationship right now"
    Would this be a nice way of saying shes not interested? She seemed genuinely sad with her response so its made me wonder.

    It could be a genuine reason but I suspect there's half of the sentence missing:

    I can't get into a relationship right now, but I could with someone else.

    Sorry dude.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,001 ✭✭✭✭opinion guy


    Would this be a nice way of saying shes not interested?

    Short answer - yes.
    Long answer - maybe, maybe not. but either way she's said no. if she changes her mind she'll come to you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 312 ✭✭Libertewhite


    I can't get into a relationship right now, but I could with someone else.

    Haha! Ah well, at least I tried!

    Cheers guys:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,628 ✭✭✭SheRa


    In my experience its either one of 2 things
    (1) a polite way of saying that she isn't interested
    or
    (2) (less likely) she's just broken up with someone and a relationship is the last thing on her mind at the mo or for the forseeable future.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 225 ✭✭e04bf099


    Always assume the truth, unless given real reason to doubt, other than your personal suspicions and preconceptions. People are mostly honest. Good on ya for havin' a whack anyha;)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 137 ✭✭Annie Bananie


    I would take that as she is not interested, I am sorry to say.

    But as you said, you tried, you gave it a go :) At least now you know, you do not have to wonder :D Always regret the things you did do, not the ones you didnt :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    I asked this woman out and she replied "I can't get into a relationship right now"
    Would this be a nice way of saying shes not interested? She seemed genuinely sad with her response so its made me wonder.

    Last time I heard this and took it in good faith, only to find out that she started seeing someone a few weeks later. :rolleyes:

    But that's no reason to doubt everyone; some people are more genuine than others.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    I asked this woman out and she replied "I can't get into a relationship right now"
    Would this be a nice way of saying shes not interested? She seemed genuinely sad with her response so its made me wonder.

    in a word, yes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 312 ✭✭Libertewhite


    I wouldn't be surprised if thats what happens here, Liam:D

    Always a brighter tomorrow!;)

    Thanks folks for the help, much appreciated

    Libertewhite:cool:


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