Is f buddy developing feelings for me?

LegacyUser

Hi all.
I have a f buddy for the last 9 months or so.
It started as a potential boyfriend/girlfriend thing but after a few dates we realised we had nothing in common, conversation was stilted and we both just stopped it in its tracks. A few weeks later we met at a club and ended up going home together.
We had sex and after he freaked out a bit and pretty much ran away. I was a bit surpised and confused. He rang the next day to say that he was worried that I wanted a boyfriend and he didnt want a relationship. I assured him I didn't want to go out with him that it was just about the sex.

So basically, when one of us is drunk we end up sleeping together. Not that often. Been together maybe 10 times in 9 months.
Usually it is me who calls him. He doesnt drink whereas I party quite a bit. But if I call, he will come over. We have sex and he leaves. We don't contact each other aside from that.

But I called him on saturday night and he came over. We were messing around but he was different. Very affectionate and hugging. He kept saying to me that I could have any man I wanted and why did I keep coming back to him. I replied that I wasn't interested in racking up a huge number of partners but I wanted to have sex. He continued saying this to me.

He then asked could he stay the night. I said no. He left (he only lives a minutes walk).
He then texted the next morning to say that he'd had a great time with me. He's never done that either.

I don't want to hurt him but I'm not sure if this means anything. I have no interest in him as a potential partner which is why the way things are suit me.

Another thing is, that sat night was the first time I've given him oral sex. Usually it's just a straightforward wham bam thank you, goodbye scenario. So all that was said may just be because of that. I must be good lol

hornyfemale

Sounds like he's starting to want more from this than just sex. Unless you want the same walk away now as it will only end up very bitter

Peggypeg

Yeah I agree, figure out where his head is and walk away if you're on different pages.