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New relationship

  • 14-10-2009 8:10pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm going unreg'd for this one.
    I was in a relationship for about 18months a year ago and it ended. I lost my job and wound up living at home, which is not exactly babe magnet territory i know!
    Long story short, Im back out on my own doing something I really like and I met someone wonderful.
    We get on great so far, even though its only been a few weeks. But why am I so afraid of ruining this one like I did the last? I shouldnt even be thinking along those lines for fear it would contaminate my judgement. I really hope my nervousness doensnt take the form of long silences or arguments in the future.
    Is it too early to be thinking this way?

    Thanks


Comments

  • #2
    Colonel_McCoy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 751 ✭✭✭Colonel_McCoy


    yes its too early, just calm down relax and enjoy your time together and forget about the negative thoughtsd. No point putting yourself under pressure worrying about things that may not happen. Everybody gets nervous in these situations. Just be yourself and let things flow naturally.


  • #3
    kittenkiller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,433 ✭✭✭kittenkiller


    Chill OP.

    Even if the relationship doesn't last the distance, sure at least you can look back on things and say you had fun!
    If things don't go belly up, you might end up marrying this girlfriend.
    If it doesn't you'll just have to find someone new.

    It's the beginning of a relationship, you need to relax and have fun!
    Take it one day at a time and enjoy yourself!

    Best of luck OP.


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