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Wedding present - how much??

  • 12-10-2009 10:03pm
    #1
    newbie1010
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20 ✭


    Going to wedding in two weeks, they have a list with a shop u just make a contribution to rather than buying actual present. How much are u supposed to spend, is €100 enough to give from me on my own? Loadsa couples I know are going but don't want to ask them how much they're putting in. Cheers!


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  • #2
    4zn76tysfajdxp
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    Moved from After Hours.


  • #3
    00112984
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,600 ✭✭✭00112984


    €100 for you alone is more than enough and is what I'd give.

    Saying that, I hate gift lists/contributions requests and am a spitefull bitch so would instantly reduce to €50, just cos they asked.


  • #4
    Rebelheart
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,077 ✭✭✭Rebelheart


    newbie1010 wrote: »
    Going to wedding in two weeks, they have a list with a shop u just make a contribution to rather than buying actual present. How much are u supposed to spend, is €100 enough to give from me on my own? Loadsa couples I know are going but don't want to ask them how much they're putting in. Cheers!


    €100 on your own sounds perfect, if not too generous in these times. It's much better when they have a list; at least you know that whatever you get them they will want.


  • #5
    Rebelheart
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,077 ✭✭✭Rebelheart


    00112984 wrote: »
    €100 for you alone is more than enough and is what I'd give.

    Saying that, I hate gift lists/contributions requests and am a spitefull bitch so would instantly reduce to €50, just cos they asked.


    It's far, far easier to have those lists.


  • #6
    samilou
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34 ✭samilou


    I am getting married in April and we would be very grateful for €100 as i think anyone getting married (the cost of a wedding these days) would greatly appreciate.

    I did at first thing it was a bit rude to have a list but when you already live together and have done for a while, most couples have what they need, there is only so many bales of towels, sets of knives etc 1 house needs. I think a mixture is good, have an option for gift vouchers, inexpensive to more expensive presents. We havent done a list yet, but everyone is always asking what we want and are we having a list...


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