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How much can you trust?

  • 06-10-2009 8:11pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all.. I'm with my other half a few years now, and have never had reason to doubt him, he treats me well, and we're good together,And I love him to pieces. I'm just a little concerned, he's going on a trip next week, a three week working deal, he works in the music industry so this will be a pretty hectic full on drinking, working, drinking type of scenario, now I just can't shake this horrible feeling that well, you know, what goes on tour stays on tour and it would be very very easy for him to cheat and get away with it!
    I know I should just trust him and not wind myself up over this, but honestly, it's making me feel sick! I don't know where it came from, well he got a few emails telling him how fantastic the women were so forth and so on, and at the time I laughed them off... Not so much now that its almost D day! Have told him that I trust him, and while I realise that temptation is part of life its how you deal with it that counts.. He tells me that I've nothing to worry about, and I really want to believe him, but I'm finding it really hard to shake this insecurity. Don't want to harp on about it to him, bless him, he's done nothing wrong, but it's really making me miserable! What can I do? Advice on a postcard?


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  • #2
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    In a situation like this, where you know what you should do but have trouble doing it, it's difficult. I've been there too. In the end, I just held my hands up and made peace with the situation - if your partner is faithful, great - nothing to worry about. If they're unfaithful, they were never worth being with in the first place as they obviously don't respect you enough.

    Try and keep yourself occupied for the 3 weeks too ...... nothing worse than being at a loose end and your imagination working overtime.


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