MEN!!! UGH !!!

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:09pm #1

What is it with the young men of today?? As a young, single and i suppose i can say moderatly attractive girl of 18 i am quickly becoming seriously disillusioned with the whole concept of dating and relationships. Now the critics out there might say im generalising but for heavens sake in past year I've dated men who:

.have turned up on a date drunk
.brought another girl on the date with us and asked me if "i fancied?" :mad:
.wanted sex 3 seconds into the bloody date
.cancelled the first date altogether because there was a match he forgot about on tv!

Now you cant tell me its the type of guys i go after because ive tried a broad range of personality types and so on. So what the hell is going on?
Is it the type of signal im sending out or what?

biko · 13-09-2009 8:10pm

All men aren't bad. Just keep at it and you'll find your prince.

liah · 13-09-2009 8:10pm

/waits for the slew of anti-generalization defenders to come out of the woodwork..

Yeah, men can be twats. You get used to it.

sparky360 · 13-09-2009 8:11pm

may i be the first to offer my services?

Jeebus · 13-09-2009 8:11pm

It's because you can't spell.

TestTransmission · 13-09-2009 8:12pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

What is it with the young men of today?? As a young, single and i suppose i can say moderatly attractive girl of 18 i am quickly becoming seriously disillusioned with the whole concept of dating and relationships. Now the critics out there might say im generalising but for heavens sake in past year I've dated men who:

.have turned up on a date drunk
.brought another girl on the date with us and asked me if "i fancied?" :mad:
.wanted sex 3 seconds into the bloody date
.cancelled the first date altogether because there was a match he forgot about on tv!

Now you cant tell me its the type of guys i go after because ive tried a broad range of personality types and so on. So what the hell is going on?
Is it the type of signal im sending out or what?

:p

Volvoboy · 13-09-2009 8:12pm

What is it with the young wimmen of today?? As a young, single and i suppose i can say moderatly attractive boy of 22 i am quickly becoming seriously disillusioned with the whole concept of dating and relationships. Now the critics out there might say im generalising but for heavens sake in past year I've dated wimmen who:

.have turned up on a date in her flowers
.brought another girl on the date with us so they could judge me
.wanted shoes 3 seconds into the bloody date
.cancelled the first date altogether because there was a episode of sex in the city she forgot about on tv!

Now you cant tell me its the type of wimmen i go after because ive tried a broad range of personality types and so on. So what the hell is going on?
Is it the type of signal im sending out or what?

tribulus · 13-09-2009 8:13pm

Lol, what "concept of dating and relationships" is there when you're 18!

My name is URL · 13-09-2009 8:13pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

.have turned up on a date drunk
.brought another girl on the date with us and asked me if "i fancied?" :mad:
.wanted sex 3 seconds into the bloody date

I've done all those things on the one night :cool:

brummytom · 13-09-2009 8:14pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

What is it with the young men of today?? As a young, single and i suppose i can say moderatly attractive girl of 18 i am quickly becoming seriously disillusioned with the whole concept of dating and relationships. Now the critics out there might say im generalising but for heavens sake in past year I've dated men who:

.have turned up on a date drunk
.brought another girl on the date with us and asked me if "i fancied?" :mad:
.wanted sex 3 seconds into the bloody date
.cancelled the first date altogether because there was a match he forgot about on tv!

Now you cant tell me its the type of guys i go after because ive tried a broad range of personality types and so on. So what the hell is going on?
Is it the type of signal im sending out or what?

Yeah Nice story.

PICS etc.

katiemaloe · 13-09-2009 8:14pm

Don't worry sweetie... Im 30 and have dated a vast selection of retards, mentalists and psychos but still reckon there are loads of fab guys... I just have poxy luck and poxy taste!!!

My Auntie told me ya have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince.

You have obviously found some amazing frogs but there are still lots of princes for everyone. All in good time!!!

Elessar · 13-09-2009 8:15pm

Don't worry it'll all work out and in 10 years you'll be pumping out children like the baby factory you're destined to be

ScumLord · 13-09-2009 8:15pm

Your going for the wrong type of men, you should try 29 year old yellow, internet persona's, I'll be honest and up front with you though, I will turn up for the date at the very least drunk out of my mind, I will bring another girl and you'll be lucky to make it to 3 seconds before I'm demanding sex.

mental07 · 13-09-2009 8:16pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

What is it with the young men of today?? As a young, single and i suppose i can say moderatly attractive girl of 18 i am quickly becoming seriously disillusioned with the whole concept of dating and relationships. Now the critics out there might say im generalising but for heavens sake in past year I've dated men who:

.have turned up on a date drunk
.brought another girl on the date with us and asked me if "i fancied?" :mad:
.wanted sex 3 seconds into the bloody date
.cancelled the first date altogether because there was a match he forgot about on tv!

Now you cant tell me its the type of guys i go after because ive tried a broad range of personality types and so on. So what the hell is going on?
Is it the type of signal im sending out or what?

It's probably because you're dating teenage boys, and most teenage boys have the maturity level of a chicken's big toe

tdc · 13-09-2009 8:16pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

suppose i can say moderatly attractive girl

pictures could help us narrow down the problem :pac:

My name is URL · 13-09-2009 8:17pm

Parpies in shooper plx

stepbar · 13-09-2009 8:18pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

What is it with the young men of today?? As a young, single and i suppose i can say moderatly attractive girl of 18 i am quickly becoming seriously disillusioned with the whole concept of dating and relationships. Now the critics out there might say im generalising but for heavens sake in past year I've dated men who:

.have turned up on a date drunk
.brought another girl on the date with us and asked me if "i fancied?" :mad:
.wanted sex 3 seconds into the bloody date
.cancelled the first date altogether because there was a match he forgot about on tv!

Now you cant tell me its the type of guys i go after because ive tried a broad range of personality types and so on. So what the hell is going on?
Is it the type of signal im sending out or what?

Did he say "Hello...... I want sex?"

minidazzler · 13-09-2009 8:20pm

OP, if you are from Cork PM me, I will show you all men are not *****. I will be a perfect gentleman.

But you probably won't so OK.

But you should becuse not all men are like that! I am perfectly nice!

ScumLord · 13-09-2009 8:20pm

stepbar wrote: »

Did he say "Hello...... I want sex?"

Lets do away with the formality's, hello

Gummy Panda · 13-09-2009 8:20pm

Who goes on a date in ireland? You go for a drink and its great craic

/des bishop

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:20pm

Just because im 18 doesn't mean i want to play the field. Been there done that, bored of it. Just want something a little bit more meaningful.
Not talking about falling in love straight away or anything like that, just something thats built on a better foundation than just sex. Is that so bad?

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:21pm

I'm from Waterford actually

deise48 · 13-09-2009 8:22pm

in fairness you are going to find it hard at 18 to find a man to date imo 30 is the reasonable age to expect a man to finally act like a man

mrs moneypenny · 13-09-2009 8:22pm

Firstly I'd suggest chancing your user name. It's throwing out all the wrong signals.

You'll get there honey, not all men are bad.

minidazzler · 13-09-2009 8:23pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

I'm from Waterford actually

Oh well, you have no idea what your missing:)

Besides you could have at least said UGH Waterford men, everyone knows there eejits.

Oh, and you are dating BOYS Not men. Being 18 and legally Adult does not make you a MAN>

deise48 · 13-09-2009 8:24pm

liah wrote: »

/waits for the slew of anti-generalization defenders to come out of the woodwork..

Yeah, men can be twats. You get used to it.

you a woman by any chance ?

/

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:24pm

minidazzler wrote: »

Oh well, you have no idea what your missing:)

Besides you could have at least said UGH Waterford men, everyone knows there eejits.

Oh, and you are dating BOYS Not men. Being 18 and legally Adult does not make you a MAN>

I won't disagree with you there

tdc · 13-09-2009 8:25pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

Just because im 18 doesn't mean i want to play the field. Been there done that, bored of it. Just want something a little bit more meaningful.
Not talking about falling in love straight away or anything like that, just something thats built on a better foundation than just sex. Is that so bad?

u have the rest of your life for that. im 22 now and i honestly dont know why some of my friends have been in 4-5 year relationships since they were 16. im not going to speak for the girls but i can gaurentee you that all of the guys are going to deeply regret it later on in life.

*giggles* · 13-09-2009 8:25pm

Maybe it's your fair self turning them off. Have you ever thought of that?
The whole concept of dating is a la mode. What about courting in the 1950's? Is that what your after?

waraf · 13-09-2009 8:26pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

What is it with the young men of today?? As a young, single and i suppose i can say moderatly attractive girl of 18 i am quickly becoming seriously disillusioned with the whole concept of dating and relationships. Now the critics out there might say im generalising but for heavens sake in past year I've dated men who:

.have turned up on a date drunk
.brought another girl on the date with us and asked me if "i fancied?" :mad:
.wanted sex 3 seconds into the bloody date
.cancelled the first date altogether because there was a match he forgot about on tv!

Now you cant tell me its the type of guys i go after because ive tried a broad range of personality types and so on. So what the hell is going on?
Is it the type of signal im sending out or what?

He sounds like an absolute legend in fairness

Jeebus · 13-09-2009 8:26pm

mental07 wrote: »

It's probably because you're dating teenage boys, and most teenage boys have the maturity level of a chicken's big toe

As oppose to teenage girls, who are about as mature as BOOBS LOL!!!!!!

tribulus · 13-09-2009 8:26pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

Just because im 18 doesn't mean i want to play the field. Been there done that, bored of it. Just want something a little bit more meaningful.
Not talking about falling in love straight away or anything like that, just something thats built on a better foundation than just sex. Is that so bad?

Not at all, it's quite admirable but most 18 year old guys simply aren't going to be like that.

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:28pm

Well maybe it is me turning them off I can't honestly say that it isn't. And no im not saying i want a 50's style courtship. Just someone i can be comfortable around and have a laugh with. Someone who sees me as more than just some kind of "sex buddy".

stepbar · 13-09-2009 8:28pm

ScumLord wrote: »

Lets do away with the formality's, hello

I was trying to account for the 3 seconds.....

*giggles* · 13-09-2009 8:30pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

Well maybe it is me turning them off I can't honestly say that it isn't. And no im not saying i want a 50's style courtship. Just someone i can be comfortable around and have a laugh with. Someone who sees me as more than just some kind of "sex buddy".

You're not at all particular when it comes to finding "romance". I think you really need to get over yourself. Sex buddies only exist in programmes like "Sex and The City".

Brian · 13-09-2009 8:30pm

I would postulate that you are sampling from the wrong circles of "gentlemen".

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:31pm

Thats kind of naive. Sex buddies are everywhere today. Are you a teenager yourself?

Gummy Panda · 13-09-2009 8:31pm

*giggles* wrote: »

You're not at all particular when it comes to finding "romance". I think you really need to get over yourself. Sex buddies only exist in programmes like "Sex and The City".

thanks for ruining the dream

Next you'll be saying stunt dick isn't actually a job

minidazzler · 13-09-2009 8:32pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

Well maybe it is me turning them off I can't honestly say that it isn't. And no im not saying i want a 50's style courtship. Just someone i can be comfortable around and have a laugh with. Someone who sees me as more than just some kind of "sex buddy".

Are you looking for marriage in your next relationship? You are 18, I am not saying go riding everyone, but don't get hung up on one person too long. Just go clubbing with your girlfriends and kiss random fella's. You don't need a relationship right now and if you have one you will probably end up resenting it.

I think what you want is Intimacy rather than a relationship anyway.

(I hate giving PI answers in an AH Thread!)

TestTransmission · 13-09-2009 8:34pm

*giggles* wrote: »

Sex buddies only exist in programmes like "Sex and The City".

I beg to differ

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:34pm

Yes intimacy sounds like exactly what i want. I'm not saying I want a relationship that'll last years and years. Just something more than "kissing random fellas"

ScumLord · 13-09-2009 8:35pm

stepbar wrote: »

I was trying to account for the 3 seconds.....

I was just trying to get the record.

minidazzler wrote: »

(I hate giving PI answers in an AH Thread!)

I hate it when you do that too. :pac:

LD 50 · 13-09-2009 8:36pm

sparky360 wrote: »

may i be the first to offer my services?

dang. Beat me to it.

My name is URL · 13-09-2009 8:37pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

Yes intimacy sounds like exactly what i want. I'm not saying I want a relationship that'll last years and years. Just something more than "kissing random fellas"

So you're looking for a celibate 18 yo who you have no expectation of having a longterm relationship with?

A friend perhaps..

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:38pm

Didnt say they had to be 18...

deco05ie · 13-09-2009 8:39pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

What is it with the young men of today?? As a young, single and i suppose i can say moderatly attractive girl of 18 i am quickly becoming seriously disillusioned with the whole concept of dating and relationships. Now the critics out there might say im generalising but for heavens sake in past year I've dated men who:

.have turned up on a date drunk
.brought another girl on the date with us and asked me if "i fancied?" :mad:
.wanted sex 3 seconds into the bloody date
.cancelled the first date altogether because there was a match he forgot about on tv!

Now you cant tell me its the type of guys i go after because ive tried a broad range of personality types and so on. So what the hell is going on?
Is it the type of signal im sending out or what?

He wanted sex before the date otherwise he wouldn't have turned up;)

PrettyBoy · 13-09-2009 8:40pm

Gay best friend. Problem solved.

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:41pm

deco05ie wrote: »

He wanted sex before the date otherwise he wouldn't have turned up;)

Thats my theory...too bad thats not what i wanted

My name is URL · 13-09-2009 8:41pm

kinkyboots wrote: »

Didnt say they had to be 18...

Well in that case I'm 26 and require someone to bring me my slippers of an evening =p

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:41pm

PrettyBoy wrote: »

Gay best friend. Problem solved.

I do like that idea! :P

kinkyboots · 13-09-2009 8:42pm

My name is URL wrote: »

Well in that case I'm 26 and require someone to bring me my slippers of an evening =p

I'd slap you with those slippers! Then put them back where i got them.
Get your own smelly slippers :P:P

MEN!!! UGH !!!

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