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afriad to kiss guys

  • 13-09-2009 1:14am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Im 16 and I have a total problem with kissin lads. I have done it before but im always afraid im doin it wrong. Im afraid to kiss anyone infront of people I know in case it looks rotten...I know this sounds stupid but I have seen my friends laugh at people kissing when they were all over the place.
    When I do kiss someone I immediately get shy and leg it...is there any way of gettin over this as I know I wont get a boyfriend if this shyness continues...help!


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  • #2
    Thornography
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 640 ✭✭✭Thornography


    Everyone's kiss is their own. You only learn by doing, And hope that the other person is going to learn with you (At that age i`m referring to).

    Your just going to have to relax, Be confident about what your doing and not let your friends thoughts bother you.

    It does take two to tango after all, so relax and enjoy growing up :)

    If not, blame the other part involved if your start hearing rumours ;) (joke)


  • #3
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 3,505 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    At 16, it's totally normal to feel shy and generally just awkward when kissing lads, especially if there's people watching you. I might be reading this wrong but it also sounds like you don't really know the guys you're getting with very well, as you're not sticking around, maybe this is the problem? Maybe you just haven't been around a guy long enough to feel comfortable doing something so personal with him?

    As for your mates, they probably only laugh at other people because they're just as insecure as everyone else and dont want to show it. Dont mind them.


  • #4
    Lady Athame
    Closed Accounts Posts: 42 ✭Lady Athame


    Practice on your friends


  • #5
    wexford202
    Closed Accounts Posts: 350 ✭✭wexford202


    stupidandshy wrote: »
    Im 16 and I have a total problem with kissin lads. I have done it before but im always afraid im doin it wrong. Im afraid to kiss anyone infront of people I know in case it looks rotten...I know this sounds stupid but I have seen my friends laugh at people kissing when they were all over the place.
    When I do kiss someone I immediately get shy and leg it...is there any way of gettin over this as I know I wont get a boyfriend if this shyness continues...help!

    It is something that you will learn over time.

    Not every kiss you have will be enjoyable either let me tell you. You might not like the way the boy kisses you either.

    Also there are people that will tell you all you do is put your tongue in and wiggle it around. That is seriously not how to do it. There are no real rules and regs for kissing. There are a million different ways.

    If you are nervous just do exactly what the guy is doing to you. That way he has to be happy with it as he is giving you the exact same speed of kiss etc.

    I am more of a passion kisser. Like sucking or nibbling the lip (NOT BITING), or run your tongue all over the circle of his lips slowly. Then I am also an earlobe sucker and nibbler which actually thinking about it may be a little too much for you at 16 years old.:)

    Just be relaxed and go with the flow.

    Someone said to practise on your friends! Please don't. You will be so ashamed looking abck at things like that when you are older.;)


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