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How to tell when a lad fancies a girl??

  • 10-09-2009 11:17pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok, I think this might be one for the lads, an insight into your minds might be very helpful to us ladies!
    I am in a situation with a lad at the moment and cannot figure out if he likes me or not? Any advice or tips anyone?
    Cheers :)


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  • #2
    Sephiroth_dude
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 81,083 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sephiroth_dude


    Why dont you just be brave and ask him does he fancy you?:)


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I don't have the courage whatsoever....
    Thanks for your reply, and other advice I appreciate it. Men are so hard to figure out!


  • #4
    Sephiroth_dude
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 81,083 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sephiroth_dude


    Unregistered wrote: »
    I don't have the courage whatsoever....
    Thanks for your reply, and other advice I appreciate it. Men are so hard to figure out!

    Well find the courage within you and ask him and then you'll know for sure :pac:,what have you got to lose?


  • #5
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    Well first of all the OP has not said she fancies him ... so I don't intend advising her to ask him if this is the case.

    Guys are usually very transparent in showing that they fancy someone. They will gaze in a girl's direction that they fancy, very unselfconsciously when she is around, and will often be tongue tied when they meet them.

    All the best.


  • #6
    Elessar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,267 ✭✭✭Elessar


    VaioCruiser wrote: »
    Well first of all the OP has not said she fancies him ... so I don't intend advising her to ask him if this is the case.

    Guys are usually very transparent in showing that they fancy someone. They will gaze in a girl's direction that they fancy, very unselfconsciously when she is around, and will often be tongue tied when they meet them.

    All the best.

    That's a generalisation. I'm not like that. I'm always a shy when it comes to these things and don't know what to do. My default response is to just act normally, in case she gets the idea I like her and then makes fun of me or something :o

    I'll do the gazing into the eye thing though, when we're talking. A bit of banter here or there but that's it. Lost a very good opportunity not so long ago with a good friend and did nothing. It's a lost cause with her now. :(

    Point is OP, if you like someone, make it very clear. Eye contact is a very good way if you're a girl. Take a chance, ask him out with you to go hillwalking/cinema anything that you both have a common interest in. It doesn't need to be stated as a "date". Then make it very clear you are interested. That should work.

    But if he's anything like me you might need to take the initiative :D


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