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another boy/girl situation...

  • 10-09-2009 1:39pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Appreciate thoughts but feeling a bit daft so def unregged for this...the usual...met a boy fri night, very little drink involved, lots of talking, know him from around the city through friends of friends but not very well. Got to know a fair bit about him fri and after brief snog said I wasn't into one night set-ups, he said he wasn't either and would like to see me again. Lots more talking etc, numbers exchange and plans to hopefully meet next time he's back in Cork.
    So was quite happy with this but have heard nothing since. I did send a message during the week and no reply. Was it a load of lines or am I missing something? He's 30, I'm 27, we're not kids but god do I feel like one.....
    Move on or am I just too impatient?!


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    my guess is he was in cork, met a girl he liked, and now he's gone he doesnt want to pursue it. Long distance things are a nightmare. A guy worth his salt wont play games with a girl he likes, if he was interested he would have text you by now. Or else he's out of the country with no credit to text you back!! A or B...... you choose. You had a nice night - move on :)


  • #3
    Lola92
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭Lola92


    Op,

    I'm glad you had a good night and it's unfortunate the person you had this connection with doesn't live near you.

    Maybe it's best to leave the situation as is, if he texts you sometime in the future all well and good, meet for a few drinks etc. but I personally wouldn't go after this one.

    Speaking as someone currently in a long distance relationship it's alot of work and you both would need to have a very strong basis of trust and so on so it might be better to put it down to a good night and a fond memory:)


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    appreciate the replies - you are right, move on and be glad for a nice night! Only thing is, he's from Cork too and is around a fair bit so I will bump into him frequently....guess just be mature about it and move along!


  • #5
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Given that you sent him a message and he didnt reply I would go schmoozing all over him if you meet him out.. Not being mean but if he was interested he would have replied. Any chance he is not single?


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Sarah it did cross my mind! Silly guy though if he is with someone as we have a few mutual friends....I hope he's not as I hate people that do that kind of thing. Anyway, chalk it down as they say....and no, definitely no schmoozing when I see him again which alas seems to be every flippin weekend! Ah well! Cheers guys.


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