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Online friends?

  • 07-09-2009 1:15pm
    #1
    Princess Leia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 32 ✭


    Hi just wanted to get others' opinions on this..recently got together with old friend after many years of separation due to emmigration, we have always loved each other and finally 18 years later got together.
    Now here's the thing..BEFORE current guy I had a brief passionate relationship with a guy this summer, both of us are mature in age but he seemed very hung up on his Ex and after a few weeks I stopped seeing him as he planned to go to a family wedding with her..I have an ex too, but no way do we attend functions together except those involving kid.
    Anyhow I told him I was going to date others and he stopped calling/texting.
    Then he started to chat to me on a Social site we are both on, sending pics of flowers etc...he then asked to meet up said he still had feelings for me,and I told him I would but only to talk as I am afraid of getting involved with him..well all week he never called to meet up so I left a message that I was moving on, and I got no reply or txt back.
    Anyhow current BF asks to meet up and we just had a ball, I never felt so at ease with anyone he knows me so well but the spark that was always there was as strong as ever.
    However it is a long distance thing and I am so lonely!
    The person I was seeing over the summer has started to send flirty messages on the site again, and the worst part is I enjoy it! What is wrong with me? Why am I still attracted to him?
    I feel like I should delete him as a contact but I dont want to hurt him, how do I handle this? I love the site we chat on as it's a good laugh, and I have friends on there.
    Also he seems to spend a lot of time online which I feel is strange, like he could not have a proper relationship with me but can spend hours with his virtual friends..what is that all about?
    I know I would far rather be with long distance BF than with online friends if I could..
    We are all mature people BTW..I have very little dating experince and I would love some advice/opinions please. Thanks!


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