Almost a fetish

LegacyUser

This may sound really mad but i am addicted to women in tights and stockings. i am 30 in a relationship and am lucky that my partner will wear them for me. However i cant stop looking at them. i work in an office building and lots of the women here wear skirts. in the winter i find it diffult. even opaque tights turn me on.Every relationship i have had the women wore tights for me. some women i even asked to do that after one date. am i mad. do other men feel the same way. how do women feel. thanks

Irishcrx

Hey man,

Don't worry it's not that strange at all almost every man(and women) weather they admit it or not have some sort of fetish and trust me some of these are even extreme fethish's much worst than liking tights, I myself have my own likes and dislikes in the bedroom. You'd be surprized how many people have their own thing they like behind closed doors the sexual world can be very differant from what you think people are like in the outside world.

Don't worry it's all part of it and is perfectly normal behaviour, if it turns you on...it turns you on it's human nature.

Lux23

Its a really common thing for men, it doesn't bother me although I do find stockings a pain in the bum to wear but I guess it doesn't matter when its only in the bedroom! I wouldn't really call it a fetish as it so vanilla and something that most couples like playing around with.

Kintarō Hattori

Don't worry about it OP, as long as you don't let it get the better of you. There are far worse/weirder/kinkier things.

shellyboo

It's such a common fetish! Don't worry about it at all, OP... the only thing I'd worry about is what you say about work... try to keep it under wraps there!

RossFixxxed

Kintarō Hattori wrote: »

Don't worry about it OP, as long as you don't let it get the better of you. There are far worse/weirder/kinkier things.

Actually yeah, there's a very good point. Once it doesn't dominate your life you're away. And it's one you'll get to see around and about the place too Lucky fella. I'd have to go and find a rabbi, a chicken, two rubber sheets and a troupe of dancing donkeys.... It doesn't happen very often.

Once it doesn't affect your life and work or you don't go around with your tongue on the floor at every woman in tights, you're laughing. I'd imagine many women would be relieved to hear that was your fetish! (My gf and the rabbi aren't speaking anymore!)

Good luck op!

VaioCruiser

troubled123 wrote: »

This may sound really mad but i am addicted to women in tights and stockings. i am 30 in a relationship and am lucky that my partner will wear them for me. However i cant stop looking at them. i work in an office building and lots of the women here wear skirts. in the winter i find it diffult. even opaque tights turn me on.Every relationship i have had the women wore tights for me. some women i even asked to do that after one date. am i mad. do other men feel the same way. how do women feel. thanks

Try to enjoy it but not let it take over ... fetishes are great ... as long as you control them and they don't control YOU.

With girlfriends don't make it an issue until after you know them well enough. After one date is MAD !! and a formula for disaster and a symptom that you are losing control

Most women love to wear stockings, it's just that they are difficult and a bit of a nuisance. But knowing they are appreciated will be enough to wear them from time to time.

All the best

LegacyUser

Hey it’s not uncommon at all. I love it too, that and hi-heels. Unfortunately my OH isn't as open as yours, makes me feel like a pervert, embarrassed and ashamed for having the feelings so count yourself lucky

Irishcrx

Oh yeah , I have an awful weakness for high heels aswell. See OP it's awful common.

LegacyUser

Hi OP, probably nothing to worry about, I'm in much the same boat myself as I have a serious nylon fetish as well. Pretty much impossible for me not to have my head turned by a woman in skirt and nylons. Luckily for me, my OH likes to dress up in the bedroom from time to time as a treat which is great.
I guess the only slightly problematic element of this for me is whenever i occasionally catch an accidental glimpse of a woman's stocking top or wearing holdups then my legs go to jelly. This has happened in pubs, on trains, in the street, in shops, you name it... Hell, even seeing a woman buying holdups in a shop is a major turn on.
so i guess it is a fetish, but not dangerous to anybody really I suppose....

cafecolour

Stockings and tights are designed to be sexy and get men to look at them. It's like saying you've got a thing for women in bikini's - no ****

Mackleton

From a female perspective, or at least from this females perspective, being turned on by stockings etc, any female lingerie of any kind is totally normal, after all that is the purpose they are designed for! Personally stockings are a double whammy, not only do I feel sexier wearing them but I also get a thrill out of knowing that a guy is getting turned on by seeing me in them. I would say that requesting a girl wear them for you that early on would have any normal girl running a mile. At least wait until you have been sleeping with her for a while.

clonmelguy

I am the very same Op and dont see it as a problem. I will always notice a woman in stockings or tights before the girl in jeans despite looks. Can I ask here which Irish celebs we would like to see in stockings. Here is my list.......... Miriam O'Callaghan, The Ó Soige sisters, Andrea Corr, Lucy Kennedy, Anna Daly. and lots more

Pyr0

clonmelguy wrote: »

I will always notice a woman in stockings or tights before the girl in jeans despite looks

+1

I notice women with stockings/tights more than I would women with jeans or just a skirt, it'd be a turn on for me too OP. Nothing to worry about.