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First time sex

  • 20-08-2009 9:21pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    For the guys-
    In a new relationship and I've been holding off on sex for about a month, but really want to get jiggy in the next week or so. Any advice on letting him know I'm ready to (in teenage speak, even though I'm in my 20s!!) "go all the way"? Or should I just let it happen naturally? I want the first time with him to be good, without me jumping on him and seeming too eager. Mayber eager is the way to go! Any comments welcome, but not too graphic as I know mods will close the thread!


Comments

  • #2
    Liam Byrne
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    You definitely need to let him know by your actions! Saying "OK so" is the lamest and least inspiring attempt at a turn-on possible!


  • #3
    Toots
    Administrators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,957 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Toots


    Well I'd stop short of actually saying 'I want to jump your bones' or something slightly less blunt. How about next time ye're fooling around (to use an Americanism) just kinda keep going? If you're down in the living room at the time, maybe just say something like 'do you wanna go upstairs?'. Unless he's as thick as a plank, he'll get the message :)


  • #4
    Dinxminx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 848 ✭✭✭Dinxminx


    Wear your sexiest lingerie and strip. You don't need to say a word and he'll get the message loud and clear.


  • #5
    VaioCruiser
    Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭VaioCruiser


    Unregistered wrote: »
    For the guys-
    In a new relationship and I've been holding off on sex for about a month, but really want to get jiggy in the next week or so. Any advice on letting him know I'm ready to (in teenage speak, even though I'm in my 20s!!) "go all the way"? Or should I just let it happen naturally? I want the first time with him to be good, without me jumping on him and seeming too eager. Mayber eager is the way to go! Any comments welcome, but not too graphic as I know mods will close the thread!

    Just make sure you are in a suitable location... let cuddling proceed ...

    If he is cautious and doesn't make the move - just whisper something in his ear ... "let's go upstairs.." or "I really want you.." it should be pretty natural in my opinion and if he feels the same it should move along pretty easily...

    All the best


  • #6
    puglover
    Closed Accounts Posts: 442 ✭✭puglover


    First time I slept with me current bf, we were out and the urge just came over me. I gave him a really long passionate kiss and asked him if he fancied an early night...


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