What to do?

LegacyUser

Ok, not really sure what im looking for but any advice given would be great!

Basically was out a few months ago and snogged a bloke who was a brother of a friend and we kinda stayed in touch, the txts/emails where flirty etc and he came over one day, now nothing happened i bottled it at the last minute and he wasnt too happy about the rejection, fastforward a few months i was out last week and his 2 sisters were so weird with me, he had told them that we were sleeping together,

Now from my experience these people seem to be manipulating the entire situation as its a 3-1 fight, im sick with the worry of like what there doing, and telling my friends, weather i slept with him or not is really my business and im not understanding what there prob is, there leaving quite direct comments on FB and Bebo i have put straight all my friends as every time this allegedly happened i have lots of people too shoot them down,

Usually im quite fiesty when it comes to this silly drama, but would i be right in just backing down, ive started seen someone im crazy about and the feelings mutual im sick with worry they'll stick there oars in!

Any advice would be fab

xx

LegacyUser

the sisters sound like weirdo's! Who actually wants to think/know about their brother shagging/kissing someone?! And spreading it too!!! My brother is big and bold enough to fight his own battles and what he gets up to I really dont want to know. Next time you hear someone say it I would be tempted to say yup its true but he was crap and kept going on about his sisters in a "special" way Just kidding, personally i would distance myself from your "friends", if they are lying about you and spreading stuff then they aren't your friends, report them to bebo and facebook and get them banned from your page, talk to the brother (dont believe in texts as they leave a trail) and tell him off and say you never want to hear him saying that, tell him he is a creep, etc. I would also warn this new bloke about your stalker, (thats what he is if he is telling people ye are sleeping together still, talk about deluded!) in an off hand manner. it will be an awkward conversation but better than explaining after muggins and his sidekicks start to get to him.

if you back down people will think you slept with this loser, which will be more upsetting in the longterm because then what else are they going to say? Are they going to start saying more depraved stuff about what ye allegedly got up to? stick to your guns and ignore these twerps, they sound immature and spiteful. It sounds like you have better friends and a new hotty in your life so stick with it.

Best of luck!!!

celica00wd

Person up above hit the nail on the head. Just remove the people as friends on facebook...easily done...

and as for the fella...he gotta be told..stop spreadin lies...and even make sure theres people there to hear you aswell...he'l feel like a complete spa!

as for the new boyo in your life, let him kow before he hears something! alwyas best...he should get a kick out of some chap mad after his new girlfriend and put a smile on his face!

LegacyUser

Hi OP here,

Yeah i think i just got so worked up in my head that he would like try ruin everything,


Ya it has me baffled how they actually speak to there bro about this stuff, strange buncha grapes they are!!

Thanks for ur help