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Falling for the wrong person

LegacyUser · 2009-08-17 23:15:59

The only reason I'm posting this is because it's starting to take over my thoughts. I'm sharing a house with five other people and I'm really falling for one of them *Dave. We've both been living there for about eight months. He's good-looking, intelligent, thoughtful, funny but he's also a complete player. I'm not stupid,…

17-08-2009 11:15pm

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The only reason I'm posting this is because it's starting to take over my thoughts. I'm sharing a house with five other people and I'm really falling for one of them *Dave. We've both been living there for about eight months. He's good-looking, intelligent, thoughtful, funny but he's also a complete player. I'm not stupid, I know his track record with women. He is never with the same girl for more than a month, but brings quite a few home. I meet them in the house sometimes and its like a kick in the stomach.

Over the last few months I guess we've spent a lot of time together and we have a lot in common. We've gone out to pub and to get a bite to eat a lot, but just as friends. He's affectionate with me, always hugging and touching me (not in a pervy way). He's complimentary and tells me I look good when I get hair done or dress up etc. A couple of my friends reckon that he fancies me, and I'd love to believe it. But part of me is really wary of him because he sleeps with a LOT of girls and I'm not looking for the humiliation of seeing him around the house if we had a one-night stand. Especially when I feel myself having really intense feelings about him. I told him once that I see him as the brother I never had, but I regret saying that now in case hes not being honest about his feelings for me because of it.

We were sitting watching tv last night, we'd had a bottle of wine each and he cuddled up to me on the sofa and kissed the top of my head. To me it didnt feel like a romantic thing, but I've asked friends and they think it was. On a purely sexual level, I'd absolutely love to jump his bones, because I dont think I've ever been so turned on my a man but I do value our friendship.

Sorry for the rant, I dont know what I'm really asking for here. Should I let my sexual frustration guide me or just bottle it up ?

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