How far would you travel for sex?

LegacyUser

Meet a guy a few months ago (I knew him when we were kids but haven't seen him in years) and we’ve been in contact, initially via fb but after a couple off weeks it progressed to texts, calls (both every day) and skype. We get on great everything seems perfect, except.............

he has just left his wife and I mean he left about two months ago plus he lives in another country!!! I know it’s complicated and messy. Before anyone asks, he has definitely left her, he has told one of his friends here and I have seen the mail, I have told a mutual friend about it and they have about it and his family has seen us on skype together.

He is coming home to visit in a short while. My question is, how far would a guy be willing to go just to sleep with someone, would you travel to another country (15 hour flight), just for sex?????

Deep down I know he is telling the truth but I still get the little niggle doubts, so I was just wondering.

LegacyUser

Hey,

Bit of a sticky situation the whole LDR thing, I do not think he is coming home just for sex, Id say its more along the lines of seeing if something can be rekindled properly between you, you may connect via txt, skype but seeing them in person and spending time with them is a completely different thing,,

I would just enjoy it and put thoughts of you being a booty call out of your head, obviously i would guess he would want things to go slowly anyway after coming out of a marriage,

best of luck to you,,
xxx

LegacyUser

friend of mine decided to do a similar thing. Booked a flight and met a girl in America who he'd met on line... My friend has bi-polar and figured that this girl was the love of his life. He was on a high.

Would I fly across the world to meet up with someone I had chatted to online/fb/skype and who I hadn't seen in years?

Only if I had some serious issues..... Sounds like rebound or someone who maybe sees you as someone to fill the lonliness gap he's now feeling.

If you started on FB with him a few months ago and he left his wife a couple of months ago, has he left his wife for you?

iguana

Does he come from the country you are in now? If so, in all likelihood he is coming to visit his friends and family as well as you. I'm not saying that you aren't a motivating factor, but that you are probably not the sole reason.

Otis Driftwood

bornirish wrote: »

would you travel to another country (15 hour flight), just for sex?????

Unless it was someone I was hopelessly in love with,not a hope in hell.

LegacyUser

blootoo wrote: »

If you started on FB with him a few months ago and he left his wife a couple of months ago, has he left his wife for you?

No he didn't leave his wife for me. We were chatting for a while, nothing more than that and he was telling me he was planning on leaving, I did try to convince him to stay with her and to try marriage counciling but he had already tried all that, he said that he fell out of love with her a while ago but that he had decided that he would leave now. So no he didn't leave her for me.

Iguana - He's not coming to see his family and friends (I'm not being big headed) he is coming home for about 15 days and 12 of them we are going away together.