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is it just sex or does he like me?

  • 09-08-2009 4:04pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    just want some advice.
    ive been seeing a guy for 2months or so - well we've only met 3 times...as he is in galway for summer and im in dublin.met him in galway and we got on well but nothing happened.
    we began by texting like every day for 2weeks, then he said he would drive up to see me.we went bowling and out and we slept together.
    he has been up twice since. we have gone out, we get on really well and have laugh and have slept together.
    im just not sure if he is just interested in seeing me for sex or does he actually like me?
    he will be back in dublin in september and im just not sure if we will be seeing more of each other.
    im not used to this whole dating thing at all......
    is this the usual?
    does he like me?
    how long would people general be dating before they talk bout stuff like being with other people/going out etc??
    thanks


Comments

  • #2
    Liam Byrne
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    Quit worrying and enjoy whatever's there.


  • #3
    Wurly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭Wurly


    Liam Byrne wrote: »
    Quit worrying and enjoy whatever's there.

    +1. I'd go with the flow and see what happens. Relax and have fun. This will make him want to be around you more anyway.

    I think 'the conversation' depends on the people and the situation at hand. Sometimes people never have that conversation - it doesn't need to happen as things develop naturally. No rule of thumb here tbh.

    I hope it all works out for you anyway. And if it doesn't - well it can't hurt you if you enjoyed it while it lasted and had no expectations as such.

    Best of luck.;)


  • #4
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    Unreg unsure wrote: »
    just want some advice.
    ive been seeing a guy for 2months or so - well we've only met 3 times...as he is in galway for summer and im in dublin.met him in galway and we got on well but nothing happened.
    we began by texting like every day for 2weeks, then he said he would drive up to see me.we went bowling and out and we slept together.
    he has been up twice since. we have gone out, we get on really well and have laugh and have slept together.
    im just not sure if he is just interested in seeing me for sex or does he actually like me?
    he will be back in dublin in september and im just not sure if we will be seeing more of each other.
    im not used to this whole dating thing at all......
    is this the usual?
    does he like me?
    how long would people general be dating before they talk bout stuff like being with other people/going out etc??
    thanks

    TBF, none of us can answer this for you - you need to ask the guy. But it seems you both like each other so why not just enjoy it for now and see where it goes?


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